Step 1: Set Your Goal

Go after what you want by creating (and writing down) your dating goals. Research shows that people who write down specific goals are more likely to achieve them, so let's figure out what you want and go after it!

Seth Godin Reminds Us the Little Things Add Up to Landing Big Dates (November 2017)

Sending a Facebook Friend Request Can Lead to a First Date (September 2017)

You Can’t Have a Summer Fling Sitting on the Couch (September 2017)

Five New Year’s Resolutions to Market Your Way to a Date (January 2017)

Christmas Movie Characters Sum Up My 12 Dates in 2016 (December 2016)

Don’t Feel Sorry for Me or the Cubs Because We Don’t Have Rings, Yet (October 2016)

Be Direct to Direct Your Way to Another Date (September 2016)

Gotta Look Good, Even for the Early Flight on Southwest Airline (February 2016)

New Year’s Resolutions That Will Make Dating Even More Fun (January 2016)

An Open Holiday Letter to All the Single Ladies (December 2015)

The Fear of Rejection Can Prevent People from Moving Forward (October 2015)

Love Lessons From a Teenage Girl (September 2015)

Tinder Was the Best 40th Birthday Present (September 2015)

Inspired by the NFL Draft, I’ve Finally Created my Own Dating Draft (April 2015)

My First Marketing Plan Was to Get a Date with my High School Crush (April 2015)

Age is a Deal Breaker, But That Doesn’t Make Me Picky (January 2015)

A Year of Seth Godin’s Marketing Advice Prepared Me to Find the One (January 2015)

Thinking Like a Tiny Business Owner in Vegas was Just Plain Fun (December 2014)

I Have a Way Better Chance of Getting a Date If I Just Walk Outside (October 2014)

Don’t Cry for Me, Chicago. I Can Handle Rejection (September 2014)

My Dating Challenge Prepared Me to Meet More Mates (July 2014)

Think for Yourself and Always Think Big When Dating (May 2014)

Losing My Valentine to Cancer Taught Me Five Lessons About Finding Love (February 2014)

Five Things I Learned About Dating From a Marketing Guru (January 2014)

Dating Should Be a Lifestyle, Not Just a New Year’s Resolution (January 2014)

Words of Wisdom From a Chicago Business Consultant (December 2013)

The Dating Tip I Learned from Talking to Myself (December 2013)

You Don’t Have to Wait for Perfect Timing (December 2013)

Being Rejected on The Steve Harvey Show Boosted My Confidence (December 2013)

Don’t Take No for an Answer and You Might Just Get a Date (November 2013)

Lean In is Strong Not Desperate (October 2013)

If You Fail to Plan You Plan to Fail Especially on First Dates (September 2013)

I Know Why I’m Single. Do You? (September 2013)

What Happens When You’re Not the Pretty One (August 2013)

Get in the Dating Game by Going Out for the Chicago Blackhawks Game (June 2013)

I Know Why I'm Single. Do You? (September 2013)

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