Play it Cool: You know movies like Basic Instinct or Disclosure? Stories of trippy women in dramatic romantic or sexual situations with the men they drive crazy? Yeah, not such a sexy look. Sure, Demi Moore and Sharon Stone are gorgeous women. But we’re talking real life. And a clingy or woman who may get super attached doesn’t fly all that well with a guy. Sure, some may like to approach you and many may love it when you approach them. However, either way, playing it cool has the sexiest look of all, so it seems.
The RD says: This one is interesting because there’s a fine line here. But, I try to think of it like this: decide what wouldn’t drive me nuts then cut it in half. So, if, say, 5 text messages in a week was too much, I’d slice that down into 2 or 3. (For some reason, less is more!) Keeping it casual before things get intense may be the best way to go.
That’s it for this week. Go out and get your game on! Sweetest Day will soon be here… 🙂
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