Tag: Shemeka Michelle

That Awful Time That I Hit My Mother

That Awful Time That I Hit My Mother
By Shemeka Michelle “Say one more word and I’m going to knock your teeth down your throat,” or, “Keep talking back and I’m going to knock your teeth out!” Those statements are both threats from my mom and also ones I utter to my kids anytime they take a leave of their senses. Recently, Grammy... Read more »

Beware: This Red Flag Can RUIN Your Relationship

Beware: This Red Flag Can RUIN Your Relationship
By Shemeka Michelle The definition of insecurity reads “anxiety about oneself,” and that amazes me. What’s even more amazing to me is how this anxiety and lack of confidence can be transferrable in relationships. When you’re in a relationship with an insecure person, he or she may simply ask, “Where have you been?” But, in... Read more »

Dear Light-Skinned Sister: I'm Sorry for all the Evil I Did

Dear Light-Skinned Sister: I'm Sorry for all the Evil I Did
Dear Light Skinned Sisters, I would like to offer a sincere apology to all of my beautiful light skinned sisters. I’ve always hated discrimination. I think to classify and treat people differently because of race, gender, or sexual orientation is ignorance at its best. Most people would agree. What most people won’t admit is when... Read more »
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Why Black Men Won't Marry Black Women

Why Black Men Won't Marry Black Women
By Shemeka Michelle Black women are controlling, argumentative, mean and they wear fake hair. Dating a non-black woman is less stressful and non-black women are better teammates who are an all-around better option. These are just a few of the reasons listed on a recent post stating why black men would rather be with non-black... Read more »

My Sex Addiction Doesn't Define Me

My Sex Addiction Doesn't Define Me
By Shemeka Michelle This weekend I had the opportunity to see Zane’s new movie “Addicted.” I must say it was well put together and closely resembled the book which for me is always a plus. However, as the movie goers laughed and talked loudly to the screen as so many do especially during opening weekend,... Read more »

When the Side Chick Has a Baby

When the Side Chick Has a Baby
When Being the Side Chick Goes Wrong By Shemeka Michelle Side chicks have been around since the beginning of time. Some women even claim to have found glory in being number two. My story however is a little different. As a side chick I wasn’t wined and dined or taken on any expensive shopping trips.... Read more »
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3 Types of Women who Should NOT be in Leadership!

3 Types of Women who Should NOT be in Leadership!
By Shemeka Michelle I’ve always been told that if you have to fight for authority then you really don’t have it. There are two places that this statement is most true; church and the workplace. In both places, I have experienced women that just don’t need to be in charge! They are insecure and emotionally... Read more »

Here's Why YOU Can't Find a Good Man

Here's Why YOU Can't  Find a Good Man
You don’t have to be a Star Baby! By Shemeka Michelle I think every single person should have a list. This list should include at least five must haves in a relationship, five things that would be nice but aren’t necessary and five deal breakers. This list would be a constant reminder and serve as... Read more »

Do NOT Launch a Business with Friends! Here's Why

Do NOT Launch a Business with Friends! Here's Why
By Shemeka Michelle The Sweetest Revenge Most of the time I’m very blunt and straight to the point. Even when I ponder my thoughts and really think before I speak, I’m just not good at sugarcoating. Those who know me understand that, unless I’m angry, I speak with all sincerity even if the truth stings.... Read more »
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Hey Mr. Right, I’ve Been Sleeping With Your Cousin

Hey Mr. Right, I’ve Been Sleeping With Your Cousin
By Shemeka Michelle Not that I’m a label whore but I usually don’t care for off brands.  I definitely prefer Kellogg’s Rice Krispies over the knock-off store brand Crispy Rice. When it comes to sliced American cheese, I will only buy Kraft. Many people argue that you’re just paying for the name and the off-brand... Read more »