As I looked in the mirror the other day, I mentally framed my silhouette and noticed that it no longer had that young, hour-glass effect, but more like the forty-something mother of three with grey highlights, effect! My breasts are still firm, the arch in my back remains and the sensual curves of my hips are still supported by strong towers that flex with every stride.
Yet, I cannot compete with her!
Ladies, it does not matter how beautiful you are or how brilliant your mind is, there is a female that will turn the faithful husband’s head and cause the devout preacher to stumble. She is the reason why GREAT men fall!
I was listening to a friend the other day lamenting over her husband’s infidelity. She was devastated and could not be comforted. She had caught him, again! Not once, not twice, but many times, she walked in on him cheating with this other woman.
What in the world are you going to do, I wondered? Why are you still with him, was my next question, and how much more will it take before you realize that your man is a cheating, unfaithful liar and someone who can no longer be trusted? And you said you caught him in your marital bed, too?
Married women, beware! Single, dating women, listen closely! This chick is ruthless and the desire for her is insatiable.
She has destroyed many homes and wrecked countless relationships. Even the couples that survive the toughest of times, have been defeated by this other woman who creeps in with a subtlety, most vicious. Her venom is deadly and will drain the very life out of your relationship.
I call her Ms. P. Lady Pornography is her name. She’s easily accessible and comes in all shapes, sizes, and nationalities. There is no end to her fountain of desire, she aims to satisfy at whatever cost. If your man ever gets caught in her grasp, look out baby, because you’ll have a fight on your hands!
You cannot compete with her!
She’s too powerful, she’s too many, the choices are endless and the door to her portal is at the click of a mouse.
We as mothers have to protect our adolescent and teenage sons as well. Ms. P. wants them too and she’ll wrap her tentacles around their young, developing minds and get them so engrossed in her pleasures, they will have difficulty concentrating on anything else. Not to mention how she distorts their perception of what a genuine woman really is. They will search for a female like the one on the computer screen and ultimately, never find her, because she only exists in cyberspace, in the degrading world of pornography.
There is no competition with this lady of the night. The only thing we can do is maintain our dignity and self-worth. We as women of character should never try to compete with a figment of a man’s imagination! We are greater than that, more powerful than that. And if the truth be told, many of those cyber beauties are lonely and miserable and would give anything to trade places with us! We may not be able to compete with the infinite choices on the internet but hold your head up baby, because they will never compare to the intelligent, sophisticated and sagacious women that We are!
Toni J. Spearman is an author, (2 Faces of a Preacher’s Wife) is available now, editor and Life Coach in West Texas. Follow her on Twitter @ToniSpearman1.
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