Recounting real-life stories told to me while offering  advice on relationships, dating, sex and other real-life situations. There also will be times when I stray away from the usual topics to talk about sports, entertainment and current events.

Life and love in the Windy City can lead to some interesting stories. With many of those stories worthy of being shared, it is up to me to not only share some of them, but also place myself in their shoes and offer my advice on what they should do.

The topics of discussion are real-life situations and nothing is off limits.

As a disclaimer: I am not the authority when it comes to matters of the heart. All of my thoughts and opinions come from the chapters of my life and the lives that surround me. That said, I believe that all matters of the heart must be solved by the heart, mixed in with a little common sense.

There are too many of us out there who have searched for answers to their problems. Most times we could use a listening ear, a watchful eye or just a simplistic “how is your day”. Those things make a difference in a person’s life.

I am Ernest James and this is The Ernest James Theory.