Why Are We Negating Sexual Abuse and Fetishizing A Child Rapist just because she is ‘Pretty’?

Just this past week, Houston middle-school teacher Alexandria Vera was arrested for sexually abusing one of her students whom she had also become impregnated by. This woman did a heinous and damaging thing to this child whether people realize it or not.  Yet all over the Internet I am seeing something just as disturbing. Not only are some people viewing this as a ‘win’ for the boy (who seems to have lived out a lot of guy’s middle school fantasies of scoring with the teacher), but also the fact that this child fucker is being fetishized because 1) people still don’t truly associate sexual abuse with women as the aggressors and 2) because she is ‘pretty’.

Newsflash folks, this is not a ‘rites of passage’, ‘pat on the back’, or ‘high five’ moment. The fact that there are a lot of people who see it that way is what is so fucked up with our society.  I do understand that hormones are raging at that age and that many schoolboys have always fantasized sexually about teachers, but when a teacher acts on a sexual urge towards a child THAT is where the abuse and problem occurs. It is wrong and a violation of trust/abuse of power. This was not him ‘becoming a man’; this was the grooming of sexual abuse and ultimately (and repeatedly) statutory rape of a child.

The child is not at fault or the manipulator. It is the ADULT who the burden of responsibility lies on. We all know little boys that age get horny at everything. But NO TEACHER should be FUCKING THEIR UNDERAGED STUDENTS. That’s not up for negotiation.

Despite all of this, many people are conditioned to believe instances like these are a badge of honor. No, it is a form of sexual abuse towards a child and may have many adverse and lasting psychological repercussions on this child that may not surface for years.

STOP TREATING FEMALE OFFENDERS DIFFERENTLY

It’s all about women’s lib and equality right? Well lock her ass up the same way you would if the teacher was male and had impregnated his 13-year-old student. Throw the fucking book at this bitch and place her on a registry where she can’t be within parks, schools, or anywhere children are (including her own). Fuck her.

I am so sick and tired of the sympathy shown to child sexual abusers simply because they are women as if their actions are not just as manipulative and damaging to the victim. I am also sick of the media using these beautiful ass selfies and pictures of her to portray her in a different light than the monster she really is. Have you noticed that? We have not been inundated with mug shots, but with Facebook and Instagram photos of her looking young, innocent, attractive, and carefree instead. If I see another photo of her blowing another kiss to the camera I am going to fucking hurl because all it does is make me think of the mental fuckery and abuse she put that boy through.

I wish more people saw it this way. I hope that she doesn’t get a lighter sentence because she cries ‘poor me, I’m lonely, it’s not my fault but my mental state’ tears on the stand. Is she well mentally? Fuck no, but in this particular case it should not exempt her from punishment because she knew what she was doing was wrong.  Ms. Vera did not make a ‘mistake’, she made a decision to abuse a child, and for that she should be held accountable.

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