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Oral Fixation: EVERYDAY?!?!?!?!?

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Zee Karim

I'm 27 with an open-mind for opinions and strangers. I love everything about words, you can find me curled up with a good book any day and believe it or not I can read and listen at the same time..its called TALENT!

Many of my conversations always tend to veer toward sex. Who doesn't like sex? (If you say you don't, get off this blog and proceed to the nearest counseling group or your neighborhood gun shop).

Just recently me and my sister were talking about Oral Sex and someone she knew made the comment that "if a man gives it more than he gets it, he isn't a real man", WOW! what a way to size the man up huh? My significant other, who is a avid eavesdropper, chimed in with "sounds about right". After a deep long sigh I responded:

Me: "Why is that?"

Him: "Because a man is suppose to get it everyday"

Me: "What?"

Him "Yes"

Obviously he thinks this way because he is a man, but is there a man out there that really gets it everyday, FROM THE SAME WOMAN? And if so, how is that possible?

I'm one that believes in rationing, I prescribe to the notion that too much of a good thing isn't good. 

Growing up, many girls in my high school looked down on giving oral sex, it was like a stigma of disgust. No one ever claimed to have done it or if they "tried" it they didn't like it. I laugh at that now, seeing how all that was more than likely a lie. My man says "there isn't a way around oral sex, its a part of sex", I understand that completely now. But why is it a need to indulge in the act on a daily basis?  

 

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Sexual Exploitation??? I dont think so...

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Zee Karim

I'm 27 with an open-mind for opinions and strangers. I love everything about words, you can find me curled up with a good book any day and believe it or not I can read and listen at the same time..its called TALENT!

We are all sexual beings and more than a few of us engage in sex on a daily basis, with toys or with others or all by ourselves..No judgment should be passed.

So why is there this uproar about Northwestern University professor, J. Michael Bailey, bringing in two consenting adults to do a sex toy demonstration for his SEX EDUCATION class? Maybe it has something to do with it being done in public, because we all can assume that most people who engage in sexual acts(such as the one demonstrated) or who watch porn don't do it public, we rightfully assume.

As I understand it, the demonstration was optional and there were plenty of warnings to the students beforehand. Also, it seems that the students who were present were not as "traumatized" as is being portrayed in the media. Executive Director of Chicago Alliance Against Sexual Exploitation, Rachel Durchslag, has stated that some students could have been traumatized by the demonstration if they had been sexually assaulted or abused, which brings up another question...Why would they have been in a sex education class in the first place?  

Sex is always going to be controversial, whether it is verbalized or if it's the physical act. I'm beginning to believe people who have too many hang-ups about sex are just bored and probably unsatisfied, so they stuff the issues down our throats unnecessarily. And when did America become such a moral country anyway?

Often times sex is misunderstood, leading to the need for these sex education courses. I don't fully agree with the LIVE presentation but then again I probably would have been in attendance if it was offered to me. Professor bailey has also stated that he teaches "open-minded grownups not fragile children" enough said. Let the Sex Education continue!

 I will more than likely be downloading an application for admission in hopes of taking this class one day, seeing that I'm a VERY open-minded grownup.

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