Category: friendly advice

An Open Letter to Religious People: Please shut the hell up.

An Open Letter to Religious People: Please shut the hell up.
  Dear Crazy Ass Religious People:   Yesterday, I released a song called Praying to a God I Don’t Believe In. I wrote a song about my personal beliefs about God, based on my own experiences, and I drew a little picture to serve as the cover art that would illustrate my point. The track,... Read more »

Be a Big Mouth: How to improve your life by talking sh*t

Be a Big Mouth: How to improve your life by talking sh*t
I consider myself to be a pretty talented person. I sing & rap, produce my own music, and write songs for a living. I also draw, paint, sculpt, cook, and I can groom some dreadlocks like nobody’s business. However, there is one ability I have that pulls it all together, signifies my outlook on life,... Read more »

How to Stop Ruining Your Own Damn Relationship

How to Stop Ruining Your Own Damn Relationship
For the past few days, I have seen Chris Brown’s name on my Twitter timeline more times than I can count. His recent moment of bitchassedness after his ex Karrueche took a pic with Tyson Beckford was such a hot topic of discussion that it trended for an entire day. Ewwww. Let’s cut the bullshit... Read more »
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An Open Letter to Failures, Quitters, and Ambitious People Who Gave the Hell Up

An Open Letter to Failures, Quitters, and Ambitious People Who Gave the Hell Up
I have known that I wanted to do music for a living since I was a little girl. My mom still loves to embarrass me by telling stories from my childhood about how I used to put on a show whenever we had house guests, pretty much forcing them to be entertained by me. That... Read more »

10 things my White friends aren't allowed to lie about during Black History Month

10 things my White friends aren't allowed to lie about during Black History Month
Black History Month, founded by Carter G Woodson in 1926, is a time for everyone to celebrate the contributions that Black people have made to the past, present, and future of society. America is a cultural melting pot, and for most of us, having friends of other ethnicities is a natural part of life. For the... Read more »

5 symptoms of the grim disease affecting women with tattoos and piercings

5 symptoms of the grim disease affecting women with tattoos and piercings
There is a serious issue going on in the world today that needs to be addressed. Millions of people suffer in silence everyday, left behind by a world too preoccupied with the trappings of technology and popular culture to care about those who require help. In order to highlight the growing need for concern and... Read more »
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The Ten Sexting Commandments

A few years back, this cute dude I knew asked me to send him a nude. Something told me not to trust his ass. So when I got home I took a screengrab of a porno starring a post-op transsexual showing off his/her brand new functional vag by playing with a cucumber. I sent it... Read more »

Why the racist Straight Outta Compton casting call is a bigger deal than you think

Why the racist Straight Outta Compton casting call is a bigger deal than you think
Wanna see some bullshit? As many of my readers know, in addition to doing music I do a lil acting. Working actors join actors unions (I’m with SAG/AFTRA) to get fair treatment and pay, to make sure things are on point. So I knowwww that SAG/AFTRA is gonna be all over this agency Sande Allesi... Read more »

5 reasons why I wanna marry Netflix, and why you should too.

5 reasons why I wanna marry Netflix, and why you should too.
Being a recording artist makes my life nuts. I travel, I keep vampire hours, and I never know when I’ll have free time. Even now, I am writing this blog while I am on a phone call with my web designer discussing a new site rebuild. My life is nuts and I really don’t have... Read more »
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How I found out I'm a slut... and why you might be one, too.

How I found out I'm a slut... and why you might be one, too.
These days, in the post Sex and The City era, it’s pretty much common knowledge that chix love getting laid just as much as dudes. We post dirty memes, talk openly about our Man-Crushes, even brag about our conquests just like the bros. Cuz, you know…why not? But still, there are hella people who aren’t... Read more »