Praying is to Ask, Meditate to Listen

Meditation or prayer? Quite often I am asked at the understanding of how I have found peace with being raised a practicing Catholic and choosing to follow what was instinctively clear in Zen Buddhism. There is a distinct difference and although since I was a young teenager I took the path of Zen, t he inner peace that I find within through meditation has been instrumental in instilling my spiritual life.

Recently I have been in business with people that prayer is their only source. It is the way in which they honor their higher power, and in doing so try to inspire others to find their way.  "It is in the praying and asking that you will receive, in Jesus' name". Respectfully, I listened as I am always curious as to how people connect to their higher spirit. I believe every individual should have the choice. Yet in doing so, I found that my practices in Zen Buddhism and Eastern methods were unacceptable to their understanding, and although I have been practicing for over thirty years, I seemed diminished in the light of their prayer.

Prayer is powerful, I do not deny that. I have had personal experiences with the healing power of prayer. I know my prayers, I will not forget them, forgive me Father, for I have sinned. It is the daily life of a person, the goodness that they do every day, the difference that they make in inspiring others and helping those in need. Not through the recital of a prayer, but through their own path, for  they honor the life that they have been given and appreciate the limited time we have. There should be no need to ask forgiveness if in the work we do, it is done with love and light.

Yet, I chose to meditate more frequently, listen more than ask. Methods inspired by Buddhism, Hinduism and Zen, transcendental meditation, zazen, yoga, walking meditation, connecting with nature ... this is my Eastern promise. In these meditations, silence leads you into a still mind where you experience a mental and physical inner peace. To chose meditation, that is a disciplined prayer. It is listening, not asking that I have found to be the closest to the universal light.

Love and Light...



copyright 2012 MaryEllen Malinowski, Zen Living by design |  Infrared Light International











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    MaryEllen Malinowski

    Zen Living by design is a division of Infrared Light International, a lifestyle design company that enlightens, educates and empowers clients to connect with living an extraordinary life based on the simple elements of nature, water, light and tranquility. Founded by MaryEllen Malinowski in 1994, The Infrared Light Gallery®’s success is based on eastern art, lifestyle, designs, travel and international design concepts that make people’s homes, business and personal well being reflect a simplified Zen Living. "M" is an international award winning Infrared photographer, published author, Japanese garden designer and Executive Director of The Koi Whisperer Sanctuary. Her mission is to enlighten Chicago and the world to experience Zen Living by their own design. Zen Living by design Magazine coming Spring 2014

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