Why Women Envy?

Sisters of Love,

My heart is so heavy, as I sit here typing this blog. Why do Women Love to Hate & Hate to Love? Why do we allow ourselves to tear down our sisters to the point of destruction? Where does this destruction stem from? We as women need to do a self-examination, and allow God to show you who you really are, and why you hurt other women. 

Ephesians 4: 29-32 (NIV), "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."

Sisters, it is time for us to stop slandering one another, envying, and destroying what's left of our sisterhood. I am so tired of the reality tv shows, videos, sitcoms, movies, songs, etc., that demoralize us as women. Are there any women out there that are willing to take a stand with me, and bring back respect & love to our sisterhood?

Women cannot give what they don't receive, this is "Why some Women Hate to Love & Love to Hate". The woman who has been taught to envy & destroy, will only give what she has received since childhood, and that is hatred. This is why she can't love, because she is full of bitterness. Bitterness leads to envy, and envy is rottenness to the bones.  Women Love to Hate, because this is the seed that was planted in them during childhood. Hurt Women Hurt other Women. We need to stop the hurting, and begin the healing!

I need your help Sisters. We need to stop this self-destructive behavior. I want to use this blog to talk about the issues that are affecting us as women, and give solutions as to how you can get deliverance, so that you can be set Free in Christ. This blog will cover the areas of domestic violence, sex, marriage, relationships, drugs, spirituality, parenting, exercise, love, finances, career, etc. We need to restore authentic love & respect for one another.

Why do women envy one another? Are you honest with yourself to admit that you envy your sister? Acknowledgement is the first step to deliverance. Envy is defined as coveting what someone else possess. Ask yourself the following questions: What is preventing you from encouraging your sister? Are you happy with your life? Does tearing down your sister, make you feel good about yourself? Do you live your life with regrets? What can we as Sisters of Love do to restore love & respect back in our relationships? Let's talk.....Send me your comments.

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    Marlene Trimuel

    Proverbs 14:1: “Every wise woman buildeth her house; but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands”. Marlene Trimuel is a Spiritual Life Coach, public speaker, and soon to be author. Mrs. Trimuel mission in life is to reach, teach & empower women to become all that God has purposed them to be. Through seminars & conferences, Marlene uses her God-given gifts & talents to help women who have been hurt, lost, and neglected to identify who they are, and to lead them back to a place of healing. Marlene Trimuel is currently enrolled at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School pursuing two Master Degrees in Urban Ministries & Christian Studies. Upon completion of her Master Degrees, she will begin doctoral studies in Ministry. As a Spiritual/Life Coach, Marlene teaches kingdom building principles of spiritual growth/maturity, and stewardship to help women become spiritually debt free.

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