Let's talk about oral sex

A question for all of my female readers who enjoy having sex with men: Do you enjoy performing oral sex on men?

I know that seems like an odd question, but I have a reason for asking. Recently, I was having a conversation with someone who asserted that no woman enjoys performing oral sex on a man. When I said that women have told me that they enjoy performing oral sex on men, she said that those women I've talked to weren't telling the truth.

And so I figured I'd ask you fine folks.

As with any sexual act, everyone is going to feel differently about oral sex. Some women are really going to love it. Some women are going to hate it with the violent passion of a thousand suns and every emotion in between.

Or so I've been led to believe. But maybe I'm wrong. It's certainly happened before and, though I hate to admit this in such a public fashion, I'll likely be wrong again someday. However, I find it very hard to believe, as was asserted to me, that no woman actually enjoys performing oral sex on a man and that they only do it out of some odd sense of obligation or because it's just expected.

After some back and forth, I was able to convince her that it's at least possible some women enjoy performing oral sex on men. But she still wasn't convinced and didn't know why women would enjoy the act.

Again, I think the best course of action is to ask you all. So to those women who say they enjoy the act of performing oral sex on men, why? Why do you enjoy it? What is it about the act that you enjoy? What can make performing oral sex a better or worse experience? Did you always enjoy performing oral sex or did you have to work your way up to it?

I'd love to hear what you all have to say about this and share your thoughts in a future post (I won't use names or identifying information). So feel free to discuss it in the comments or on the blog's Facebook page (link is below or on the side of the page under the heading "Stalk me on Facebook"). And if you would rather not leave comments here or on Facebook, email them to me at bmayeroff [AT] gmail [DOT] com (replacing [AT] and [DOT] with @ and . respectively).

Again, names will not be used. Thanks, everyone.

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Tags: dating, oral sex

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