With the economy the way it is, people are trying to get more for their dollar! One area where this does not work is on a date. Just because you pay for her dinner doesn't mean it comes with a side of sex, especially on a first date.
Where are the gentlemen out there? How rude for a guy to expect his date to put out just because he paid for dinner! It is one thing if there is chemistry and things happen, to each his own. But I am talking about the douche bag that thinks he is owed something. Let me tell you, SHE DOESN'T OWE YOU ANYTHING; the price of a dinner does not cover tapping that ass for desert.
And the fact you can rationalize this in your pea-sized testosterone filled brain is beyond chauvinistic and disgusting. Putting a price on someone's sexuality and person is degrading and humiliating. Keep this up and the only "desert" you will be enjoying is your own, alone!
So guys, learn how to respect women and treat them with dignity. Being a gentleman will get you so much further in the long run. Women want to feel special and as if nothing is too good for them; putting a price tag on her ass and calling it desert is not the way to do that.
Please know I am definitely not addressing all straight men here and the one's I am addressing know who they are.
And remember guys (and chauvinistic pigs),
When in fear, ask The Queer