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Two Guys and A Gay: Day 1

This weekend I am working a race expo in Cleveland and I have the blessed opportunity to spend 4 nights on a RV with two other guys, and while I am sure some of you are thinking this is a gay’s wildest dream, not so much. For starters, they are straight and I am gay. ... Read more »

North Carolina, where gays cannot marry but cousins can!

On Tuesday, the great state of North Carolina voted in favor to ban same sex marriages.  Is anybody really surprised?  They are now the 31st state to pass such a law.  I just wonder what it is these states, like North Carolina, think they are protecting. The sanctity of marriage? Let’s talk about that; this... Read more »

Friday Dating Tip from The Queer Guy

It’s Friday night, the plans have been made, the clothes have been picked out and it is time to head out on your date; your first date.  Since the majority of singles are meeting people online there are times where our expectations may be a bit over inflated. Let’s say the average person spends about... Read more »
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Running for a cure! Help me end Crohn's Disease and Ulcerative Colitis!

Dear friends, family, readers and followers,   As most of you know I am in the middle of training for my second half-marathon this July. What many of you may not know is that I am running for a cause; one that is very personal, Crohn’s Disease. I was diagnosed with the disease in 1999... Read more »

Just shut up already; nobody asked for your opinion!

Facebook, Twitter, ChicagNow: you name it, there is a way to get your opinion out there. I know better than most, I write about my opinion and am doing so yet again. This time about people who give their opinion on everything. Now this is going to sound very cliche: me giving my opinion on... Read more »

I will NEVER be a Log Cabin Republican!

Since the late 1990′s, I have been approached by members of the Log Cabin Republicans to join their organization; and they just recently “followed” me on Twitter. While I personally do not consider myself affiliated entirely with any one party, I could never be a member of this group.  Since it’s inception, the Log Cabin... Read more »
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This is one way to answer the question: "Boxers or Briefs?"

TO SAG OR NOT TO SAG? “Pants on the ground.”   There have been many blogs, discussion boards and there was even a song about the topic of “bustin’ a sag”, and I wouldn’t be The Queer Guy that tells it straight if I didn’t give my two cents worth. Having heard arguments from both sides, the... Read more »

2012: The year I find my happiness and stop being an a-hole!

As I look back on the past year, there are many things I am truly grateful for: my partner, my family, my friends, my dogs and my job.  But, at the same time, I realized that I have depended wholly on these things to make me happy.  I have looked outwards for my happiness; forgetting that happiness... Read more »

Sex is a form of communication!

  Communication, at times, can be the most difficult aspect of a relationship and one that scares away many.  But why is communication always associated with talking?  There are so many different ways we communicate with each other; body language, expressions, jesters and sex (most importantly sex). Think about the times you have had sex after... Read more »
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She's Running For A Cure and To Raise Awareness...

I was diagnosed with Crohn’s Disease in 1999; a time when not many doctors even knew what it was.  It took 7 different referrals, months of pain and the “not knowing” before I was able to put a name to what I have been suffering from. Today I am healthy and living a normal life... Read more »