Ginger Phile No. 2 Fulfills Ginger Phile Definition

Ginger Phile No. 2 Fulfills Ginger Phile Definition

Remember how I wrote about how Latinos and redheads go together like PBJ?

Remember how I also wrote about the trial and tribulations of dating ginger philes? (Mostly that it's a bad idea.)

Well, as usual, I should have listened to my own advice. Ginger Phile No. 2, as I so affectionately called him, is out of my life.  And not only that, but also it ended in a very, very bad way.

And as I continue to pick up the pieces, stalking, searching for clues that led to our demise, I keep finding more and more information that makes the situation so much worse than I thought it was. I should start with saying that I always knew it wasn't the "right" relationship, and I never entirely trusted him. I'm not surprised, or really, all that hurt, for that reason.

However, it's all so much worse than I could have imagined. This is why you shouldn't date ginger philes, people, or I hate to say it, but Latinos. Latino men are statistically more likely to cheat, and frankly, it's more culturally acceptable. I knew this going in. I knew he had a thing for redheads. I knew what guys who "have a thing for" redheads, Asians, etc. are like. They'll date anyone who has these characteristics, placing one with another because personality, feelings don't matter. It's all about the look, the obsession, the fetish.

God help me if I ever date a ginger phile again. Frankly, I'll probably have to. Otherwise I'll never be with anyone again.

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    The Ginger Phile has had the unfortunate disposition of being a ginger since birth. She has tried various medications to cure her gingervitis, including therapies such as tantrum-throwing. Her efforts have been to no avail. Instead, she is trying to write it out, via this blog. Unfortunately, she doesn't think it will bear a soul for her. The Ginger Phile is from the exotic land of Wisconsin, where she had daily inner turmoil over whether she was a ginger or a daywalker. So far, three of three votes say daywalker. She begs to differ, as someone recently told her they would want to be with her if they were biking at night because she is so pale.

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