Monday Motivation- Chris Thompson

Monday Motivation- Chris Thompson
I’m not one who follows many social media trends but, today is an appropriate time for me to participate. I always get nervous expressing myself to people who I genuinely care about but fear I come off as a weirdo. As I have gotten older I find it extremely difficult to interact with other adults.... Read more »

Finding My Purpose In Life: Starting My Passion Project (AGAIN) While Having A Career

When I was younger I had big dreams, exciting fantasies of what I wanted to do when I grew up? I knew I had a great purpose in life. I knew that  I wanted to make others happy, help them in any way I could.  Now in my mid 20’s I have realize that I... Read more »

The one that "Could Have Been"

The “could have been” relationship situation is one that I am not all that familiar with often but most recently can relate to.  I have to say, getting through this and accepting the reality of what is happening really stinks right now in this moment. In this situation I was the one who wanted it... Read more »

When Is It Time To Part Ways With Those Who Don't Play Importance In Your Life

We make our first friend as a young child, maybe its a neighbor or someone we met in preschool. Usually this person is our friend until someone moves away or when we go off to separate colleges after high school. These are are the friendships that are supposed to last a lifetime. We also have... Read more »

When Imitation Isn't Flattery

Upon first meeting you, there’s a sweet beginning, we become to know each other and grow comfortable then I suddenly begin to realize some bothering behavior. While imitation is supposed to be a sincere form of flattery, it can be more vile when it happens among a “Friend”  Copycatting is not flattering when the copy-catted... Read more »

Dating a Polyamorous Man-Part 2: Tragedy Strikes

A news article came up in my twitter feed about a school official passing away at the age of 33 in a near by neighborhood. I clicked on the link and a photo of a young woman appeared with the headline again and her name. The first name I recognized because it wasn’t a common... Read more »

Dating A Polyamorous Man- Part 1: Acknowledgment of Agreement

Dating in today’s world as a millennial is pretty damn hard. You probably think I mean I am someone who is looking for a “serious” relationship, long-term commitment. That is not my issue. I don’t want any of that, I’m not good in that kind of relationship. Or at least that is what I have... Read more »

An Open Letter To Someone I've Grown to Care About Who Has Experienced a Loss

  More than anything I hate that you have to be going through this. There is nothing I can say to make this any better or easier because, this is not fair, it’s hard, it sucks! Allow yourself to grieve, respond however, you feel you need to. There is no such way you’re supposed to grieve.... Read more »

Roller Coaster of My Addiction to Love

I cannot say that I know what it is like to be addicted to a drug like cocaine or opiates. I am not saying that my experience being an addict is the same. I do believe there are some similarities.  I enjoy having that rush of being in love, knowing there is someone with me to sustain an intimate attachment. I... Read more »

You're not the only one

Being in love is one of the most amazing feelings you can have. You meet that one person who makes everything in your life so much better. Imagine having that same feeling with not just one person. I can remember all the times I have said, “I wish I could take Joe Schmo number one and... Read more »