Once upon a time, long before I met H, someone who had been married for a few years told me that marriage was 'the hardest relationship' she'd ever been in.
I thought that was the most depressing thing I'd ever heard.
I know it's work but shouldn't it be the easiest?
On this day, one year ago, H and I got married and I'm pleased to report that ~
1/ I'm old enough to know that every relationship is different
2/ and every marriage is different
3/ and I feel lucky to be in one of the easy ones. I think it has something to do with marrying your best friend ... but who am I to give advice. See 1/ and 2/.