Posts tagged "Zondra"

My Sad Life as the Side Chick

My Sad Life as the Side Chick
By Zondra Hughes Once you’ve been a Side Chick, you can’t shake that experience–especially if it didn’t end well. I should know, I was a Side Chick. Iowa State University can be a sad place when you’re the only brown girl for miles, and yes, I do mean miles. The few black guys on campus... Read more »

100 Resolutions for the New Year (Chicks Rule!)

100 Resolutions for the New Year (Chicks Rule!)
by Zondra Hughes Here are 100 New Year’s Resolutions designed to empower Chicks and fortify the Universal Sisterhood, so, please feel free to add your own.   I Resolve… To listen to my “first mind.” To shed the skin of self-doubt–and to shed those who make me feel doubtful. To never be ashamed of my... Read more »

An Avalanche of Lies: Gina B.'s Hot-Ass-Mess of A Date

Gina B. tells about a blast from the past. Well, actually, it was a hot ass mess of a date. People often ask why I enjoy writing about relationships.    Aside from the fact that I find male-female interactions fascinating, writing about them is the best way to make sense out of my dating life,... Read more »
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5 Ways To Love Yourself

5 Ways To Love Yourself
Hey Lady, I’m sure you realize that you must love yourself before you can truly receive and enjoy the love from another. However, most of us are taught early on to take care of everyone else, and when we do this, we become chameleons. When you become a chameleon, you become everything that everyone else needs... Read more »