Posts in category "Single Women"

The REAL Real reason Why You're Still Single

The REAL Real reason Why You're Still Single
By Sylvia Snowden To my fellow single ladies, Let’s get real here. The main reason we’re still single is we keep reading these ridiculous articles about why we’re still single. They never tell us anything useful, they’re always all about what we’re doing wrong and what we should do better. I ask you, what about... Read more »

DJ Vince Adams: "Ladies, Watch Your Tongue"

DJ Vince Adams: "Ladies, Watch Your Tongue"
Guest blogger DJ Vince Adams is Presidential Director at ViSalus Body By Vi™ Challenge and a multi-talented DJ, who knows a thing or two about relationships. We’re reposting Vince’s guest blog because what he has to say is that important. Ladies, Watch Your Tone by Vince Adams. In this post-”Sex In The City,” age we... Read more »

My Sad Life as the Side Chick

My Sad Life as the Side Chick
By Zondra Hughes Once you’ve been a Side Chick, you can’t shake that experience–especially if it didn’t end well. I should know, I was a Side Chick. Iowa State University can be a sad place when you’re the only brown girl for miles, and yes, I do mean miles. The few black guys on campus... Read more »
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Three Words of Advice for All the Single Ladies

Three Words of Advice for All the Single Ladies
By Devin Miller Today’s women were undoubtedly raised to be extremely independent. However, there are things that even the strongest and most competent of women can’t ignore; WEDDINGS AND BABIES. The wedding industry is a $51 Billion Dollar industry, and the Baby industry has a projected profit in the next 4 years of $61 Billion... Read more »

The Single Woman's Warm Heart, Cold Bed Syndrome

The Single Woman's Warm Heart, Cold Bed Syndrome
By A Comeaux Certain parts of my heart hurts. The part that anticipates a call from a lover.  The part that looks for a text from the admired. It hurts. Right where butterflies used to flutter, feels like embarrassing gas. Don’t front, you know what I’m talking about… Being single isn’t easy. I read a... Read more »

Men: They Don't Make Them Like They Used To!

By A Comeaux With my birthday soon approaching, another year being single and baffled at the lies and disappointments filling sweet memories’ space, I began to reflect. Where are the men of valor? The strong, courageous men who fought for freedoms and rights we live on today are likened to dinosaurs. We read about them... Read more »
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The Strategy of Dating . . . If You Don't Stand for Something, You'll Fall for an A**hole

The Strategy of Dating . . . If You Don't Stand for Something, You'll Fall for an A**hole
by Gina B. It took a while for me to realize that dating requires strategy. Out of college as a young adult, I dated haphazardly and infrequently.  I was more excited about work and my social life with friends.  A man had to be really aggressive to get my attention, and most guys didn’t have the... Read more »

Why You Should NEVER Give Your Ex Another Shot

Why You Should NEVER Give Your Ex Another Shot
Why You Should NEVER Give Your Ex Another Shot By Jean Usen  I know you’re not going to like what I have to say, sis. I can see beads of sweat forming on your brow and the cuss words dripping from your lips. Before you slide out of your sandals and pop off your clip-ons,... Read more »

Hey Black Girl: Don't Be Bitter

Hey Black Girl: Don't Be Bitter
By A Comeaux Good morning and good evening. Come in and take a seat please, as there are a few things I want to talk to you about, Black girl. No disrespect. We all have a little girl in us that we channel and she’s the one who needs to hear this. I want to... Read more »
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The 7 Relationship Types: Which One is Yours?

The 7 Relationship Types: Which One is Yours?
By Kym B. Relationships initially start from a physical and/or emotional connection – the law of attraction.  However, the mystery is what is inside each one of us that causes one to attract similar characteristics in different people.  Unfortunately what draws us to another is not always a quality that is positive or complements our... Read more »