Posts in category "Attraction"

Dear Light-Skinned Sister: I'm Sorry for all the Evil I Did

Dear Light-Skinned Sister: I'm Sorry for all the Evil I Did
Dear Light Skinned Sisters, I would like to offer a sincere apology to all of my beautiful light skinned sisters. I’ve always hated discrimination. I think to classify and treat people differently because of race, gender, or sexual orientation is ignorance at its best. Most people would agree. What most people won’t admit is when... Read more »

Don't Ignore This Relationship Red Flag

Don't Ignore This Relationship Red Flag
By Angela T. Jones The one red flag that I believe women ignore–that defines the true intentions of SOME insecure men–is a man who always points out a woman’s physical flaws.  And yes, he expects her flaws to be fixed. All people have flaws. Some physical flaws come with being a woman. One example is... Read more »

I REFUSE to Buy Love

I REFUSE to Buy Love
By Angela T. Jones I trust Steve Harvey’s opinions and endorsements. Throughout his career, I’ve been a fan and have agreed with much of what he has said; including the advice he gives on his radio show and in “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man.” Mr. Harvey seems to have the ability to... Read more »
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If You Want the Right Mate, Dangle the Right Bait!

If You Want the Right Mate, Dangle the Right Bait!
If You Want the Right Mate, Dangle the Right Bait! by Gina B. When we meet people, we want them to be attracted to what we consider to be our best qualities.   The bait that we dangle should be an accurate representation of what we consider our best qualities to be.    If you find... Read more »

10 Signs That You're Addicted to His Penis

10 Signs That You're Addicted to His Penis
By Helen Goldberg guest blogger  Great sex makes us stupid, and men know this all too well. Think about it; if he blows your mind in the bedroom, you’ll give him whatever he wants. And that’s not so bad, if you’re within the confines of a committed relationship. There is a problem, however, if your... Read more »

Look In The Mirror -- Would You Date Yourself?

Look In The Mirror -- Would You Date Yourself?
by Gina B. I still maintain that being single is a choice that we make until we’re ready, and have found the right person. As a person who’s in a good relationship, I’m wondering how many of those who claim to be ready to ditch their single status are actually going about it the right... Read more »
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My Sex Addiction Doesn't Define Me

My Sex Addiction Doesn't Define Me
By Shemeka Michelle This weekend I had the opportunity to see Zane’s new movie “Addicted.” I must say it was well put together and closely resembled the book which for me is always a plus. However, as the movie goers laughed and talked loudly to the screen as so many do especially during opening weekend,... Read more »

A Man Reveals: Are You His Starter Chick or a Benchwarmer?

A Man Reveals: Are You His Starter Chick or a Benchwarmer?
Are You His Starter or A Benchwarmer?: One Thing Single Ladies Must Know By J. Shawn Durham I remember it oh too well. In my reckless days, Homegirl was just a hookup to me. Strangely, we became friends during our dalliances. But that’s all we were gonna be: Friends with benefits as I never projected... Read more »

Lust is a Battlefield

Lust is a Battlefield
By A Comeaux Tell me when or what rap song or R&B crooner gave men the OK to toy around with a woman’s heart? Our bodies are said to be a playground but that never meant for men to come swing on our emotions and monkey around with our hearts. When we slip, there’s no... Read more »
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The 5 Rules for the Curvy Diva

The 5 Rules for the Curvy Diva
By Kierrya Isaac, Summer Intern  Everyone is not meant to be skinny, and being labeled curvy and thick is not a bad thing. Some of the most beautiful and successful women in the world are Curvy Divas (just look at Oprah and Queen Latifah), and I’m committed to do the same. Here are my 5... Read more »