Posts tagged "what men want"

When You Meet Mr. Right but He’s Not Right for You!

When You Meet Mr. Right but He’s Not Right for You!
By A Comeaux “Alright sis! I see you all vegan/yoga/zen lifestyle look good on you girl, now tell me about this man you got… Wedding bells?” Guilt is as instant as the façade of a smile you’ve mastered. For Black women, this is today’s real nightmare: When You Meet Mr. Right but He’s Not Right for... Read more »

Shemeka's Secret: He Was Married--And So Was I

Shemeka's Secret: He Was Married--And So Was I
By Shemeka Michelle He was married and so was I. For this reason, we didn’t technically date. However, we formed an illicit relationship driven by emotional deficits we both were experiencing in our marriages. I’m not at all stupid and I was well aware of the feelings he had for me and his true intentions.... Read more »

A Man Speaks: 5 Things I Wish Women Knew

A Man Speaks: 5 Things I Wish Women Knew
By Carlos Espinoza, Guest Columnist These are 5 things men wish women knew. 1. Keep your girlfriend out of our relationship. When I do something nice for you, you tell your girl about it. When I throw it down in bed, you tell your girl about it. Each time you discuss me with your girlfriend—good... Read more »
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Dear Future Wife: 6 Things I'm Looking For

Dear Future Wife: 6 Things I'm Looking For
by Ramel Werner Dear Future Wife: Even if you have a vision or idea of what your future mate will be like, it is important that you define the specific traits in your life partner. An example would be, “Someone who has a calm temperament and handles stress well.” This may sound minor, but the... Read more »

Attraction: 10 Signs That You Are Too Masculine

Attraction: 10 Signs That You Are Too Masculine
Do You Need to “Turn Up” Your Feminine Energy in your Love Relationships? by Debrena Jackson Gandy Feminine Magnetism – What’s the Big Deal? I realize that feminine magnetism is not a topic that the average woman sits around chatting about over coffee.  But we should, because it is a force and a factor that... Read more »

DATING With My Eyes Wide Open

DATING With My Eyes Wide Open
By Andrea Wright There’s a great quote from Maya Angelou that resonates with me: When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. There is no better advice for someone entering a new relationship…especially a dating relationship, but it can be a very difficult rule to follow. I’m all for giving people... Read more »
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Why Your Ex Doesn't Belong in Your Bed

Why Your Ex Doesn't Belong in Your Bed
by Toni D. Bailey Please allow me to leave you with this food for thought. An ex of mine thinks that I won’t have sex with him because I’m still in love with my most recent ex. This ex can’t seem to grasp that my refusal to allow him to taint my sheets and body... Read more »

The 5 BIGGEST Myths About Singles

The 5 BIGGEST Myths About Singles
by Claire LeBlanc To celebrate the launch of Match.com’s 2015 #SinglesinAmerica study, Dr. Helen Fisher dished exclusive #SinglesInAmerica findings during a recent Livestream Event. During her presentation, Dr. Fisher exposed several myths about singles and dating. 1. MYTH: Women are more romantic than men. TRUTH: Women are the commitment-phobes, not men. Men fall in love... Read more »

5 Guaranteed Ways to Get Sex By Thanksgiving

5 Guaranteed Ways to Get Sex By Thanksgiving
By Amy Loeb Sex! You want it, and despite being in a relationship with someone, you can’t get it. Let’s say for reasons beyond your control, you and your guy haven’t been frisky lately. He made you angry; the bills are piling up; the children are misbehaving (and they’re always home!) and the two of... Read more »
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Tell That Man: BUY or BYE!

Tell That Man: BUY or BYE!
Buy or Bye By Sylvia Snowden Whenever one of my friends gets married, I celebrate by buying a new pair of shoes (that way, everyone’s happy!).  So this one time, I was headed to a wedding and found myself looking for shoes with less than an hour before the nuptials were set to start.  I... Read more »