Posts in category "Sex with the Ex"

The Dating Cleanse-in 6 Steps

The Dating Cleanse-in 6 Steps
By Nakita Nicci Ladies, have you found yourself rarely holding out for the person you deserve? Instead, you enter some B.S. fabrication of a relationship based on potential, or you are just bored/lonely or worse – heartbroken over the last fu*k-boy?  Yeah, me too – we have all been there a time or two but... Read more »

Nakita's Confession: I Met the SideChick's HUSBAND

Nakita's Confession: I Met the SideChick's HUSBAND
By Nakita Nicci So, when his sidechick is married, what do you do when you meet the spouse? I believe there is some unwritten rule that most sidechicks have a man. Of course you have some low self-esteem women who are actually faithful to someone else’s man but for the most part, I would think... Read more »

Top 5 Reasons Why the Sex Strike will Fail

5. Netflix & Chill. How likely is a successful sex strike, when a man can hit up a lonely old flame on social media--at the height of cuffing season--and invite her over for a little Netflix & Chill? I'll wait.
We’ve suffered many days of heartbreaking violence here in Chicago, and I am down for anything that would bring it to a halt. But the sex strike is not the way to go. Yes, women banding together to withhold sex until men stop the violence makes an awesome plot for a movie. But taking this... Read more »
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To The Men I've Dated: I Am Celibate Because of You

To The Men I've Dated: I Am Celibate Because of You
By Angela T. Jones When I made a decision to become celibate, it wasn’t in an effort to diminish myself or hinder myself in any way. I made the decision, initially, because I was tired of being fed up in my relationships with men. Too often throughout my dating experiences, men only were interested in... Read more »

Sex Esteem: 5 Questions to Ask Before You Reunite with Your Abuser

Sex Esteem: 5 Questions to Ask Before You Reunite with Your Abuser
By Dawgelene “Dr Dawj” Sangster Here we are almost at the end of another year and well into what we come to know as Domestic Violence/Breast Cancer awareness month. It is October, and we get to see so many people, men and women alike, representing all of the pretty shades of pink and purple, in... Read more »

My Sad Life as the Side Chick

My Sad Life as the Side Chick
By Zondra Hughes Once you’ve been a Side Chick, you can’t shake that experience–especially if it didn’t end well. I should know, I was a Side Chick. Iowa State University can be a sad place when you’re the only brown girl for miles, and yes, I do mean miles. The few black guys on campus... Read more »
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Three Words of Advice for All the Single Ladies

Three Words of Advice for All the Single Ladies
By Devin Miller Today’s women were undoubtedly raised to be extremely independent. However, there are things that even the strongest and most competent of women can’t ignore; WEDDINGS AND BABIES. The wedding industry is a $51 Billion Dollar industry, and the Baby industry has a projected profit in the next 4 years of $61 Billion... Read more »

Why You Should NEVER Give Your Ex Another Shot

Why You Should NEVER Give Your Ex Another Shot
Why You Should NEVER Give Your Ex Another Shot By Jean Usen  I know you’re not going to like what I have to say, sis. I can see beads of sweat forming on your brow and the cuss words dripping from your lips. Before you slide out of your sandals and pop off your clip-ons,... Read more »

Love & Sex: 10 Things Women Want You to Know

Love & Sex: 10 Things Women Want You to Know
Expectations about dating, love, and sex are so hard to communicate in these high-tech times, so without further ado, here are 10 things women want men to know. (Feel free to add to the list!) I am worthy of healthy love and unbridled passion.  Don’t skimp on either. Please settle your ‘pending’ divorce/separation/break-up before pursuing... Read more »
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Do Dark-Skinned Women Make Better Lovers?

By A Comeaux I should apologize to all lovers, but I’m not. Hear me out first. While conversing with an ex lover awhile back, we had a huge debate about who’s the bigger freak: light-skin women or darker ones? There is a theory that I’ve heard both sides to with compelling arguments. I took this... Read more »