Posts in category "Respect"

When the Main Chick and the Side Chick Know Each Other

When the Main Chick and the Side Chick Know Each Other
By A Comeaux It’s windy outside now but it’s about to get cold! I need to tap a few you on the shoulder with some tips from the side chick. Now before you gather your stones please keep in mind that no matter where you are today, chances are at one point or two, you... Read more »

Hey Girl: Sometimes, His Side-Chick is a Dude

Hey Girl: Sometimes, His Side-Chick is a Dude
By Zondra Hughes Hey girl, let me ask you a very important question. This question is as uncomfortable for you to read as it was for me to write, but we’re being killed in the sheets and we must address it. WHAT IF a man that you love, and may even have children with, was... Read more »

Soft is the New Boss: What Beyonce & Ayesha Curry Do Right

Soft is the New Boss: What Beyonce & Ayesha Curry Do Right
By Deya “Direct” Smith I am here for Ayesha Curry & Beyoncé at the same time. Why? Because at first glance, they may come across as polar opposites at least in terms of how they present themselves to the world, but from where I sit and write, they have mastered the game of softly working... Read more »
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My Daughter's Boyfriend Beat Her--My Rage Motivates Me

My Daughter's Boyfriend Beat Her--My Rage Motivates Me
By Shemeka Michelle I’ve often wondered why women stay in abusive relationships so long. However, I recently found out my daughter has been in an abusive relationship for months. I wrote a blog about two months ago that my oldest daughter had decided that she wanted to be with a woman. I blamed her absent... Read more »

Will You Fix Your Man's Plate, or Nah?

Will You Fix Your Man's Plate, or Nah?
By A Comeaux As per usual, while perusing the social media stratosphere, I kept running across this ‘debate’ of sorts about Should a Woman Fix Her Man’s Plate…? Now the first time I saw a think-piece on this, I kept scrolling. Then I saw it like 5011 other times and I then wondered which (non)Housewife... Read more »

Beware: This Red Flag Can RUIN Your Relationship

Beware: This Red Flag Can RUIN Your Relationship
By Shemeka Michelle The definition of insecurity reads “anxiety about oneself,” and that amazes me. What’s even more amazing to me is how this anxiety and lack of confidence can be transferrable in relationships. When you’re in a relationship with an insecure person, he or she may simply ask, “Where have you been?” But, in... Read more »
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10 Signs That You're Addicted to His Penis

10 Signs That You're Addicted to His Penis
By Helen Goldberg guest blogger  Great sex makes us stupid, and men know this all too well. Think about it; if he blows your mind in the bedroom, you’ll give him whatever he wants. And that’s not so bad, if you’re within the confines of a committed relationship. There is a problem, however, if your... Read more »

Hey White Guy: 7 Tips for Dating a Black Woman

Hey White Guy: 7 Tips for Dating a Black Woman
Interracial Dating Done (W)right by Andrea Wright At one point in my idealistic youth, I thought, “there’s no difference dating men of different races”. I was asked to revisit this idea recently. Of course, there are similarities: they are men and thus the majority of them need validation that they are able to protect, provide... Read more »

27 Monday Motivation Tips from Oprah's The Life You Want Tour

Iyanla Vanzant and Oprah Winfrey on the Life You Want Tour.
By Shameeka Hunt It’s MONDAY! Let’s get motivated! I thought that Day 1 of the two day #LifeYouWantDC event was awesome.  Day 2 was even more mind blowing, thought provoking, energetic, and astounding.  Day 2 is when Oprah brought to the stage each of her trailblazers that went deeper into what it means and what... Read more »
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Ray Rice Knocked Her Out--and THEN She Married Him

Ray Rice Knocked Her Out--and THEN She Married Him
By A Comeaux It used to be fun when I wrote: For Love or Money… Marry, Stay, Date, heck it’s all relative! Love and Money are two paramount factors in relationships. Listening to people converse over why one is more important or why without both the love ship would sink was pure entertainment to me.... Read more »