Posts in category "Men"

Author Torri Stuckey: Learn His Code Language

Author Torri Stuckey: Learn His Code Language
By Torri Stuckey It’s difficult to determine the motive of every man who approaches you. Always assuming the worst would make you a cynic; however, believing every word a man says would make you gullible. Men lie, as do women. Learning to decipher code language, verbal and non-verbal, can be the difference in giving your... Read more »

Shemeka Michelle: "Instead of Communicating With Me, He Started A Relationship Outside of our Marriage"

Shemeka Michelle: "Instead of Communicating With Me, He Started A Relationship Outside of our Marriage"
Hot off the presses! Our Shemeka Michelle is laying it all out in her new book, Keep It Naked: A Naked Girlz Guide to Live Life Authentically. Here’s an excerpt. Excerpt from Chapter 6 “RELATIONSHIPS” Communication is extremely important in relationships. Sadly, many people lay beside each other every night but still fail to communicate.... Read more »

When You Meet Mr. Right but He’s Not Right for You!

When You Meet Mr. Right but He’s Not Right for You!
By A Comeaux “Alright sis! I see you all vegan/yoga/zen lifestyle look good on you girl, now tell me about this man you got… Wedding bells?” Guilt is as instant as the façade of a smile you’ve mastered. For Black women, this is today’s real nightmare: When You Meet Mr. Right but He’s Not Right for... Read more »
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Marriage Blues: Unhappily Ever After

Marriage Blues: Unhappily Ever After
Editor’s note: The author has requested to remain confidential. All I ever wanted was to be a good wife and mother. I had no idea it would leave me feeling resentful, lost and depressed. I met and married my husband after a very short courtship. I was head over hills in love, and I knew... Read more »

After President Trump: 5 Things Black Men Must Do NOW

After President Trump: 5 Things Black Men Must Do NOW
By Morris Brent Based on the devastation of yesterday, here’s my 5W© solution for the BLACK MAN: 1. Now, more than ever, you will need a strong black WOMAN by your side, as she is the foundation of the family. You will need a Queen with whom you can love, be loved and create a... Read more »

Nakita's Confession: I Met the SideChick's HUSBAND

Nakita's Confession: I Met the SideChick's HUSBAND
By Nakita Nicci So, when his sidechick is married, what do you do when you meet the spouse? I believe there is some unwritten rule that most sidechicks have a man. Of course you have some low self-esteem women who are actually faithful to someone else’s man but for the most part, I would think... Read more »
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Great Sex Won’t Keep Him, But These 6 Things Will

Great Sex Won’t Keep Him, But These 6 Things Will
By Yanni Brown I’ve had the most interesting conversation with some awesome men this past week. I love gleaning from their wisdom when it comes to sharing their thought provoking points of view about relationships. While we know that men and women are very different when it comes to what’s needed in a relationship but... Read more »

Summer Love: 6 People Who Will Make You Cringe

Summer Love: 6 People Who Will Make You Cringe
By Zondra Hughes Summer love brings out the best and worst in lovers. These are the six most common relationship personas that are bound to make you cringe. Check it out. 1. Side-Chick Shannon. Cheaters often misguide their mistresses with the following lies: He’s married but not in love.  He’s living in the same house... Read more »

A New Dress for A Married Man

A New Dress for A Married Man
By Zondra Hughes A friend of mine texted me from Orland Park Mall, she had just found a ‘slay’ dress to wear for this new married guy she met on Facebook and the dress ‘only’ cost $259. She texted a picture of herself wearing the dress in the fitting room, and yes, if ever there... Read more »
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Hey Girl: Sometimes, His Side-Chick is a Dude

Hey Girl: Sometimes, His Side-Chick is a Dude
By Zondra Hughes Hey girl, let me ask you a very important question. This question is as uncomfortable for you to read as it was for me to write, but we’re being killed in the sheets and we must address it. WHAT IF a man that you love, and may even have children with, was... Read more »