Posts in category "dating"

Become Your OWN Priority: 5 Steps to Selfishness

Become Your OWN Priority: 5 Steps to Selfishness
By Kym B. “Your priority is not my emergency,” is a phrase I used often on my children, but I have learned lately that it applies to every area of my life. 1. Trying to live life according to someone else’s standards will get you nowhere. When you put another as a top priority in... Read more »

I Won't Accept His Lies Anymore

I Won't Accept His Lies Anymore
By A Comeaux Happy Monday. There’s a lot on my canvas today. Please bear with me as I expound, decompress and articulate the current condition of my heart in its truest form. A much-needed venting session with my bestie ensued a self-reflective ode to how maturity and honesty has given me a confidence and self-love... Read more »

Drama Detox: 6 Steps to Shake the Snakes in Your Life

Drama Detox: 6 Steps to Shake the Snakes in Your Life
By A Comeaux As most of you may know I’ve embarked on a journey of clean eating, self-care and limitless thinking. This is no easy feat as it has cost me my most beloved vices: sex, men and liquor (as a sleep aid or social crutch or simply because, sad.) At the onset, I didn’t... Read more »
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When the Main Chick and the Side Chick Know Each Other

When the Main Chick and the Side Chick Know Each Other
By A Comeaux It’s windy outside now but it’s about to get cold! I need to tap a few you on the shoulder with some tips from the side chick. Now before you gather your stones please keep in mind that no matter where you are today, chances are at one point or two, you... Read more »

20 Things You Can Ask Besides “Can You Send Me a Pic?”

20 Things You Can Ask Besides “Can You Send Me a Pic?”
By Steph Royalty What is behind this strange epidemic where men who hardly know your first name think it’s okay to ask you to send them pictures? Sir, wyd? You ever meet someone give them your number and ten minutes later they’re asking for pictures? I have an Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and a Snapchat, feel... Read more »

The 6 Sneaky Things a Woman Does When She’s in Love

1.	She cleans the ENTIRE house for your visit. You may think that your woman just loves the smell of Pine Sol, but she also wants to put her best foot forward. More than that, your woman wants you to feel comfortable in her space. Shown: the lovely Diane Amos, aka, the Pine Sol lady.
(Model: DunsinsFaces). There are far too many relationship games going on, and thus it’s hard to know if the woman you’re with has fallen in love with you. Granted, some grown women will tell you straight up, ‘Hey, I’m feeling you, don’t waste my time,’ but other women are a little coy. Without further ado,... Read more »
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Need to Get Over an Ex? Reinvent Yourself

Need to Get Over an Ex? Reinvent Yourself
By Gina B.   Breakups suck, period.  Regardless of how bad your relationship was, or how necessary the breakup, there is a minefield of nostalgic triggers that produce erratic explosions of disturbing emotions.   I’ve found that the best way to get through a breakup is a little bit of reinvention.   Here’s how it happens . .... Read more »

I’m Sorry I Misrepresented Myself to You, But, I’m Celibate

I’m Sorry I Misrepresented Myself to You, But, I’m Celibate
By  A Comeaux “To lose everything and find yourself is the greatest treasure” I didn’t think that last storm was unique, as I’ve witnessed women bounce back like they never tripped. So amazed at the recovery I didn’t think of the premature wound that is her heart. I realized that when I was in those... Read more »

Warning: You'll Miss a Good Man While Waiting for Prince Charming

Warning: You'll Miss a Good Man While Waiting for Prince Charming
by Gina B. Am I the only woman who doesn’t believe in fairy tales? Some years ago, one of my goddaughters had become fascinated by her Auntie Gina’s lifestyle and demanded to know if I lived alone and whether or not I had a husband. She was heartbroken when I told her that I’m not... Read more »
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The #1 Reason Why You Should Never Judge a Man By His PayCheck

The #1 Reason Why You Should Never Judge a Man By His PayCheck
By A Comeaux As most of you now, we hosted our 5th annual Black Women’s Expo panel discussion, “He Says/She Says,” where we discussed the multifaceted dynamics of loving a Black man. While muddling through my personal opinions and the concerns of other sisters, (a few who were battling bitterness and hopelessness), there was a... Read more »