Category: dating

Your Boyfriend is NOT Your Babysitter; Watch Your Own Kids

Your Boyfriend is NOT Your Babysitter; Watch Your Own Kids
By Zondra Hughes Maleah Davis, a precious 4-year-old child, deserved to grow up. Yet, time and time again her safety was put at risk. It’s hard to empathize with Maleah’s grieving mother, Brittany Bowens, when the Maleah updates spread across news sites like an infection, each new detail more painful than the last. But context... Read more »

Black Women's Expo: Black Men Speak & Explorgasm!

Black Women's Expo: Black Men Speak & Explorgasm!
This year, at the 25th Anniversary of the Black Women’s Expo, we’re thrilled to bring two seminars for women! The Black Women’s Expo takes place at McCormick Place North Building – Hall C1, 2301 S. Lake Shore Drive, Chicago, IL 60616, from Friday, April 12th-Sunday April 14th. ALL SEMINARS ARE FREE with your paid Black Women’s... Read more »

Men Reveal: 6 Signs That He's Too Broke to Date You

Men Reveal: 6 Signs That He's Too Broke to Date You
By Zondra Hughes Maybe that sexy brother isn’t curbing you after all—he may be focused on getting his finances in order. Several single men have expressed how financial strife is taking an unexpected toll on their love lives, and they reveal the 6 telltales signs that a man is too broke for love. 1. HE... Read more »
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Top 10: BEST (and WORST) Love Advice on Twitter

Top 10: BEST (and WORST) Love Advice on Twitter
By Zondra Hughes If you’re in the throes of an unfulfilling relationship, Twitter can provide just the advice you need. Each Wednesday, we host the #SBCCHAT, where readers confidentially submit their love problems and our Tweethearts give their best—and worst—advice in 140 characters or less. Here are just a few. 10. “Let that man cheat... Read more »

Become Your OWN Priority: 5 Steps to Selfishness

Become Your OWN Priority: 5 Steps to Selfishness
By Kym B. “Your priority is not my emergency,” is a phrase I used often on my children, but I have learned lately that it applies to every area of my life. 1. Trying to live life according to someone else’s standards will get you nowhere. When you put another as a top priority in... Read more »

I Won't Accept His Lies Anymore

I Won't Accept His Lies Anymore
By A Comeaux Happy Monday. There’s a lot on my canvas today. Please bear with me as I expound, decompress and articulate the current condition of my heart in its truest form. A much-needed venting session with my bestie ensued a self-reflective ode to how maturity and honesty has given me a confidence and self-love... Read more »
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Drama Detox: 6 Steps to Shake the Snakes in Your Life

Drama Detox: 6 Steps to Shake the Snakes in Your Life
By A Comeaux As most of you may know I’ve embarked on a journey of clean eating, self-care and limitless thinking. This is no easy feat as it has cost me my most beloved vices: sex, men and liquor (as a sleep aid or social crutch or simply because, sad.) At the onset, I didn’t... Read more »

When the Main Chick and the Side Chick Know Each Other

When the Main Chick and the Side Chick Know Each Other
By A Comeaux It’s windy outside now but it’s about to get cold! I need to tap a few you on the shoulder with some tips from the side chick. Now before you gather your stones please keep in mind that no matter where you are today, chances are at one point or two, you... Read more »

20 Things You Can Ask Besides “Can You Send Me a Pic?”

20 Things You Can Ask Besides “Can You Send Me a Pic?”
By Steph Royalty What is behind this strange epidemic where men who hardly know your first name think it’s okay to ask you to send them pictures? Sir, wyd? You ever meet someone give them your number and ten minutes later they’re asking for pictures? I have an Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and a Snapchat, feel... Read more »
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The 6 Sneaky Things a Woman Does When She’s in Love

1.	She cleans the ENTIRE house for your visit. You may think that your woman just loves the smell of Pine Sol, but she also wants to put her best foot forward. More than that, your woman wants you to feel comfortable in her space. Shown: the lovely Diane Amos, aka, the Pine Sol lady.
(Model: DunsinsFaces). There are far too many relationship games going on, and thus it’s hard to know if the woman you’re with has fallen in love with you. Granted, some grown women will tell you straight up, ‘Hey, I’m feeling you, don’t waste my time,’ but other women are a little coy. Without further ado,... Read more »