Posts in category "Consistency"

The Only Love Advice You Need: "Be Consistent!"

The Only Love Advice You Need: "Be Consistent!"
By Gina B.   I have a few Humpday questions . . . do you know why your significant other fell in love with you?    What were the qualities that attracted them to you in the first place?  Are you consistent?   Don’t underestimate the importance of consistency.  Whenever I’m feeling skeptical about relationships, I... Read more »

Love & Sex: 10 Things Women Want You to Know

Love & Sex: 10 Things Women Want You to Know
Expectations about dating, love, and sex are so hard to communicate in these high-tech times, so without further ado, here are 10 things women want men to know. (Feel free to add to the list!) I am worthy of healthy love and unbridled passion.  Don’t skimp on either. Please settle your ‘pending’ divorce/separation/break-up before pursuing... Read more »

Are You Living Your Best LIE?

Are You Living Your Best LIE?
How beautiful do you feel naked? How powerful do you feel broke? What is the source of your joy? I asked myself these questions while in bed reflecting on my life. There were about a hundred other self-notes taken and honestly I didn’t have all the answers. I began to write a poem. Then a... Read more »
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100 Resolutions for the New Year (Chicks Rule!)

100 Resolutions for the New Year (Chicks Rule!)
by Zondra Hughes Here are 100 New Year’s Resolutions designed to empower Chicks and fortify the Universal Sisterhood, so, please feel free to add your own.   I Resolve… To listen to my “first mind.” To shed the skin of self-doubt–and to shed those who make me feel doubtful. To never be ashamed of my... Read more »

These Four Gifts Every Woman Needs--Don't Cost a Thing!

These Four Gifts Every Woman Needs--Don't Cost a Thing!
Merry Christmas to Myself By Toni Spearman Being the last-minute Christmas shopper that I am (I work better under pressure), I decided to add one more name to my shopping list before December 25th: My own! I felt like Santa Claus, literally, when I made my list and checked it twice, then a few more... Read more »

Got a minute? 7 Tips to Recharge Your Career

Got a minute? 7 Tips to Recharge Your Career
The future is now—so, are you prepared for it? Ven K. Lai, Lead Creative Designer, Buick, Creative Design, has seven rules for rebooting your career and these rules apply if you’re a Millennial just starting out, and/or if you’re a mid-level executive starting over. Video: Meet Ven K. Lai Ven K. Lai, Lead Creative Buick,... Read more »
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5 Truths About Blogging with Friends

5 Truths About Blogging with Friends
 By Zondra Hughes To date I’ve received several emails from Chicks seeking advice about launching a collaborative blog with their friends. Here are five truths that you should know beforehand. 1. You will be duped. You will be duped by a self-promoter who wants to join your team of bloggers. The self-promoter will make eye-contact... Read more »

FAIL! 5 Relationships Recovering Addicts Should Avoid

By Rachel Trimble Active addicts and alcoholics make terrible partners in any type of relationship—especially romantic ones—and newly-clean addicts are no different. But… who attracts damage as well as another damaged individual? Who understands the needs of someone in recovery as well as another recovering person?   FAIL! Five Relationships Recovering Addicts Should Avoid Even... Read more »

He's Only Human--Do You Expect Too Much?

By Liz Lampkin How many of us remember Jeffrey Osborne’s song titled Only Human? Well I do…in fact it’s one of my favorite songs. As I sit and listen to Jeffrey’s sultry voice and the timeless melodies that accompany the lyrics, my ears are drawn into listening in depth to the lyrics, and thinking about... Read more »
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5 Coping Rules for the Addict's Child

By Rachel Trimble Without a Voice or a Choice of Their Own: “A moment of silence for the babies born into this disease without a voice or a choice of their own.” Many recovery meetings end this way, a prayer for the innocent ones affected by the choices of their parents. Addiction affects every member... Read more »