Posts in category "Bitter"

Hey Black Girl: Don't Be Bitter

Hey Black Girl: Don't Be Bitter
By A Comeaux Good morning and good evening. Come in and take a seat please, as there are a few things I want to talk to you about, Black girl. No disrespect. We all have a little girl in us that we channel and she’s the one who needs to hear this. I want to... Read more »

The Night My Husband Became My Enemy--and How I Fixed It

The Night My Husband Became My Enemy--and How I Fixed It
By Toni J. Spearman When the choir started singing, I Don’t Look Like What I’ve Been Through by Deon Kipping last Sunday, I could barely contain myself as the tears fell. Almost two years ago, my marriage began a vicious decline. The man I loved the most became the man I hated the most. I... Read more »

I am NOT My Sister's Keeper

I am NOT My Sister's Keeper
  By A Comeaux When was the last time you back-stabbed someone who trusted you? How many times have you heard negative things about someone and didn’t defend them? Back in the day, if there was a problem with my friend, I was at her side, ready to take on the world. Today, somewhere in... Read more »
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5 Tips to Survive Your First Heartbreak

By Liz Lampkin  Losing your first love can be devastating to your mental and emotional state, as well as your outlook on relationships. The loss of an intimate relationship (be it physical or emotional) can damage your self-esteem. You may fear that you’ll never find someone like your first love, you may lose faith in... Read more »

Ms. Independent

By Yanni Brown Dear Ms. Independent, I’m writing to see if you are open to the possibilities of sharing your life with someone?   I’m asking because so many of us women have become so independent that we are not willing or able to let anyone in, to share our lives with or willing to... Read more »

My Three Steps to Happiness

My Three Steps to Happiness
By Toya Nicole Confession: I’m happy. You may say, “well being happy is no confession” but for me it is. This time last year I wasn’t. A series of circumstances, a negative mindset and distractions got me off track. I still traveled and socialized with friends, posting all my happy moments on social media. I... Read more »
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Four Ways to Handle Your Haters

Four Ways to Handle Your Haters
By Sylvia Snowden Oh, No that Heifer Didn’t!    Remember that chick who pointed out that one side of your hair isn’t curled quite as well as the other in front of your entire homeroom?  Oh no?  Then what about that co-worker who decides to publicly question your competence in the boardroom?  We have all had... Read more »

Catching Hell? Make Lemonade!

Catching Hell? Make Lemonade!
 By Yolanda Yanni Brown When life hands you lemons… Make Lemonade on Purpose! Is it just me or is everyone catching hell, caught hell or has the gasoline scent lingering in the air? Lately it seems like everyone is experiencing some form of life changing or challenging situations. I know that I’ve had my share... Read more »

Want a Good Relationship? Replace the Bitter with the Sweet!

By Gina B.   Do you have any bitter friends?  You know . . . the ones who have been burned in bad relationships and are convinced that there are no good human beings left in this world.    I have a friend whom I secretly refer to as “Angry.”    She hasn’t had a... Read more »
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