The rumors are true, the elusive female that garners a healthy sexual appetite, does in fact exist.
But where is she?
She's usually hiding behind her man, picking up his dirty underwear in one room and his wet towel from another.
Of course women want Sex. But they also want a slew of other things.
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The other day I received an email from a reader listing the things he wants from his woman.
Here's a rundown of his utmost desires....it's kind of like the 10 commandments but from someone who can't count (ironically, usually a woman).
1. Men want a fun and exciting (female) companion.
2. Men want great sex (consistent, frequent, and passionate
lovemaking score high with men).
3. Men want to share meals with their woman companion (especially
when she cooks for him).
4. Men want you to support them in their work and boost their
confidence.
5. Men want you to look great, keep in shape, and express
confidence about your body.
6. Men want you to listen to them and treat them with respect.
7. Men need private time, to unwind, to engage in sports and
hobbies, and to spend time with other men.
I was actually highly impressed with this gentleman's fervor for a fantastic female companion. This got me thinking, what is it that I want in a man?
Here's my list of imperatives for the ideal mate (in no particular order).
1. Women want you to love to cuddle with them (you know you want it).
2. Women want you to love their friends (but try not to favor the pretty, slutty one).
3. Women want you to be good with money (please pay your bills on time).
4. Women DO NOT want you to be a mama's boy (love your mom but always love us more).
5. Women want you to make them feel safe (hold us, protect us, kill the spider in the bathroom).
6. Women want you to take charge (don't ask us where we want to eat, tell us where we are going).
7. Women want you to put them in their place (we know we can be annoying, just tell us when to shut up).
8. Women want you to challenge them (if you are too nice, we will take advantage).
9. Women want you to support their career (some of us strive for more than popping out a baby from in between our legs...albeit a huge undertaking, so don't send me nasty emails).
10. Women want you to clean up after yourself (and put away your dirty underwear).
11. Women want you to spend time with them (but leave us alone when we first walk through the door).
12. Women want you to take care of your body and look good (but a tummy and love handles are acceptable).
13. Women want you to be funny (this turns us on more than anything, and if you crack a good joke and make us laugh, we will sleep with you).
14. Women want you to put them first in everything (we are number 1, end of story).
15. Women DO NOT want you to cheat on them (or trust me, we'll take half your assets or cheat and hook-up with half of your guy friends as revenge).
16. Women want you to listen and respect them (the story of how my best friend started up on a new form of birth control is super important to me).
17. Women want you to love them (tell me, show me, write it to me, let me feel the love).
18. Women want you to ravish them (but remember to kiss beforehand).
It seems like men and women want similar things, but judging from this personal list, women want more. And if you always remember that women want more, and tend to deserve it....you'll probably find yourself in a very happy relationship.
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JENNYMILK
Hey Polish mama!!!!!! Nice list,little long :),but it's all true. Thanks this was fun.
I tend to get a little wordy. Typical female :)
Thanks for toughing it out and reading.
this is a good thing to know. i enjoyed reading this.
Thanks, Josh :-)
*taking notes*
eh, feel free to paraphrase your notes... :)
Thanks for reading!
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