As a member and the Vice President of Education of Unity Toastmasters (a community club in Toastmasters International), I am currently in the process of completing Pathways "Presentations Mastery." This post is the final blog that concludes a series of eight posts. I have now completed Level 4's "Compelling Blog" section.
I'm obsessed with bathroom upgrades, and talk show host Hasan Minhaj initiated my new hobby. Sitting on my bathroom floor installing a Japanese washlet and a non-electric bidet gave me the strangest sense of joy. Now I've moved on to realigning my kitchen sink.
Plumbing is quite possibly the strangest pastime I've ever been interested in for 37 years. I even asked a client could I take on marketing copy about hand-held bidets.
But before 2018 (when I purchased a condo) I would have ponied up the money for somebody to put a simple bookshelf together. Do-it-yourself (DIY) projects were absurd to me. Ugh.
So what changed? On the surface, I could say my "inner Grandad" is coming out. He passed away in 2017. I started this home decor fixation in 2018.
He was a master mechanic, a master chef, a veteran and a handyman with a tool shed that looked like something from a magazine feature. It makes sense that all those years of eyeing him fixing everything in his home—and things that weren't even broken—would eventually help me.
It's logical to believe that once you own something, you can now do whatever you want to the place. That's 50 percent of the reason.
The other 50 percent is because I love to learn new things, as long as they can hold my attention.
Why your delivery matters more than your message
So why does this matter for Toastmasters (or any public speaker)? Name your most influential advocate right now. I can almost guarantee that this person is a great public speaker. And the delivery of his/her message matters as much as the actual message.
Some of the messages that Hasan Minhaj speaks about are topics that I honestly didn't know I cared about. Apparently I do.
His show, "The Patriot Act," is one of my top five streaming shows* on Netflix. As much as I enjoyed him on "The Daily Show," this streaming series gives him the opportunity to explore more about Asian culture (and other cultures) in ways that are educational and comical.
Here are a few examples in which I learned as much as I laughed (and in some cases, more learning and less laughing):
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- Brutal as it may sound, news segments about Saudi Arabia and censorship in China would've normally made me reach for my remote control. I must admit that I agreed with him about the rap video.
- I didn't have a clue what a lota or a Japanese washlet was before his show and didn't care. Now I can't imagine ever not owning one again.
- Whether you are for or against affirmative action, the "Affirmative Action" episode of "The Patriot Act" explores the history of why it was needed. I had a general understanding of the lawsuit regarding Harvard applicants, Asian Americans and affirmative action. But I hadn't heard such a detailed critique from an Asian American breaking down both sides of the argument.
All of these topics (and more) have been their own episodes, intros or extra video segments on "The Patriot Act."
I have watched every single episode of this Netflix show from start to finish at least two or three times because I like the way he delivers his messages.
These were not topics that ever previously intrigued me. But each episode of his show made me go into a rabbit hole digging up more information on all nine episodes. In all fairness, Google already had countless videos and articles on these same topics. I read several. They're boring. Hasan Minhaj is not.
Making your speech interesting enough to share
Hasan Minhaj talks about topics that he loosely understands, but he's quick to give credit to his staff who has done far more research to help him deliver the topic in a compelling way.
While I do believe that an informative or persuasive speech clearly works out better if it's a topic you're knowledgeable about, it's not a terrible idea to explore a topic that you're interested in learning more about.
Even with 14 years of news experience under my belt and less than a year of working knowledge of marketing, I enjoyed Sam Harrison's "Idea Spotting" book enough to speak about it during the 2018 International Speech Competition. (As you may know, I did change my topic matter by the area contest. But I still very much enjoyed giving that particular speech.)
I couldn't help but notice that members who were usually quiet around me came up to give feedback on that first speech. They wanted to know more about inventors and marketing—not knowing this was the first speech topic of 10 (for Competent Communicator certification) that I knew the least about.
In your upcoming persuasive or informative speeches (or even your Icebreaker), do not be afraid to reach for ideas outside of your comfort zone. Yes, you can tell the same motivational speech or talk about the same subject that's been covered 1,001 times already.
But why not explore a topic outside of your comfort zone? What's the least that could happen?
- Your persuasive or informative speech could be the speech that makes a visitor join Toastmasters.
- Your speech could end up creating a new advocate for your cause (and maybe a few glowing evaluations).
- Your message could be so effective that it's banned by an entire country and makes people want to see it more.
- You could teach people about a topic they didn't even know they wanted to learn about.
And maybe, just maybe, you could be the reason why a woman sits on her bathroom floor happily humming along to her favorite songs. She's calculating how much money she just saved on plumbing repairs. She has two T-valve adapters in one hand and an adjustable wrench in the other. She's re-attaching plumbing from her sink and her toilet tank. Hasan Minhaj's comical speech helped her be one of many who will not waste more than 36.5 billion in toilet paper annually.
Now she's content speaking about a topic that may make some people uncomfortable. It may make a few curious about other cultures. She's installed something that is incredibly helpful for better hygiene and health perks (specifically for caregivers). And if all else fails, hopefully that eco-friendly tip this Toastmaster gave readers four sentences above stays with them long after they've read this post.