Posts tagged "Single"

Stealing time from women isn't cool

One of the harsh realities in the relationship game is that there are men out here stealing women’s assets. Her physical, emotional, spiritual and financial assets. And they do it with love. And that’s not cool. The theft begins at the precise moment when he realizes that she wants something he is determined not to... Read more »

Happy is a personal responsibility

Happy is a personal responsibility
Happy. Not the easiest thing to be. It’s not the easiest thing to catch. Even the great Declaration of Independence speaks of Providence giving us the pursuit of happiness not happiness itself. Yet, I believe that personal happiness is needed when single and in a relationship and I do believe it is a personal responsibility.... Read more »

The gray area is where you exist when you get over yourself

The gray area is where you exist when you get over yourself
I have been thinking a lot about “the gray area.” That space between black and white. The place where one tries to exist when being extreme is not really conducive to the relationship. I am a very “this or that” type of person. I have rarely ever done the gray area well and yet I... Read more »
Advertisement:

Answer all questions with four seconds of silence

Answer all questions with four seconds of silence
Four seconds of silence. That is how one should answer every question. With four seconds of silence. Then a thoughtful response. Life is lived one second at a time and because it moves so fast we tend to forget this common fact. However, the fact remains life is lived by the seconds and in the... Read more »

Why would I stay in something that makes me miserable

Why would I stay in something that makes me miserable
Hello Sir, I have a question for you about love. I have been in an on again, off again relationship for about 6 years with a gentleman whom I believed I loved. It’s very much alive because of my efforts, I believe I stuck around because I feel comfortable with him and the thought of... Read more »

Be That

Be That
Be that! I was talking to a guy the other day who was complaining about the girl that lives with him. She has no job nor is she looking for a job and he feels burdened by this person and wants out. When I asked him why he doesn’t move on he said, I don’t... Read more »
Advertisement:

State your business

State your business
State your business. So, on Facebook the other day, the very talented Ana Fernatt aka Accidentally Sexy suggested that I write a book called “How to Fiancé.” Apparently, Ana believes that I am doing a good job at being that guy and I should inform others on how to be the same. I took the... Read more »

Commitment begins with wanting to be there

Commitment begins with wanting to be there
Commitment. I’ve been thinking about commitment a lot lately. Been wanting to write about it and so it has been on the brain. Since linear thought is one of the many gifts The Bread Keeper forgot to bestow on me, my mind has raced all over the place with this topic. So, instead of trying... Read more »

The first date should be high on conversation

The first date should be high on conversation
The first date should be high on conversation and low on investment. The purpose of a first date is to find out if this woman can hold a conversation and if she is interesting to you. You are obviously attracted to her hence the setup of the date. But you don’t know that you like... Read more »
Advertisement:

Put your evil little monster in check

Put your evil little monster in check
“We all have some type of evil little monster inside.” Often times when we get in relationships we get in to them guarded, ready and willing to protect ourselves against harm. Most of the time, we do this because we have been hurt in the past and we vowed to never be hurt like that... Read more »