Posts tagged "Relationships"

If they like it then you love it.

If they like it then you love it.
Every now and then a friend gets into a relationship and all you can think is WTF! And for whatever reason the relationship irks the holy hell out of you and not only do you find yourself hating the relationship, you even begin to consider ways to tell this friend that this thing is all... Read more »

An Open Letter to Julien Blanc supporters worldwide

An Open Letter to Julien Blanc supporters worldwide
Dear Julien Blanc supporters, Your fearless master of pickup artistry is taking a beating on the internet and rightfully so. Anyone that advocates treating others in a manner that contradicts with the golden rule is bound to be receive some backlash and that is what your Julien Blanc does. I have watched all the free... Read more »

This is the response to Matt Walsh's man up article

This is the response to Matt Walsh's man up article
I just read a post by Matt Walsh called “Dear single dudes: it’s time to man up” and after reading it I was so moved by the piece I had to write about it. You can read it here. http://themattwalshblog.com/2014/06/19/dear-single-men-time-man-figure/ The message is clear. Men need to get married or at least define their relationships.... Read more »
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Everybody plays the fool.

Everybody plays the fool.
“Everybody plays the fool…sometime.” If you are familiar with the song, you know there is no exception to the rule. And there isn’t. It happens to all of us. I remember fresh out of high school I dated a girl who had a legit non-related brother. You know, the brother from another mother that is... Read more »

Pretending to like their music is the worst

Pretending to like their music is the worst
Pretending to like music you don’t like is just ridiculous. It’s never that serious. Music is not like anything else in the world. There is literally something for everyone and because of that tastes vary greatly. I know a girl who is like all pop all the time…when she’s single. When she’s dating, she likes... Read more »

Happy is a personal responsibility

Happy is a personal responsibility
Happy. Not the easiest thing to be. It’s not the easiest thing to catch. Even the great Declaration of Independence speaks of Providence giving us the pursuit of happiness not happiness itself. Yet, I believe that personal happiness is needed when single and in a relationship and I do believe it is a personal responsibility.... Read more »
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The gray area is where you exist when you get over yourself

The gray area is where you exist when you get over yourself
I have been thinking a lot about “the gray area.” That space between black and white. The place where one tries to exist when being extreme is not really conducive to the relationship. I am a very “this or that” type of person. I have rarely ever done the gray area well and yet I... Read more »

Answer all questions with four seconds of silence

Answer all questions with four seconds of silence
Four seconds of silence. That is how one should answer every question. With four seconds of silence. Then a thoughtful response. Life is lived one second at a time and because it moves so fast we tend to forget this common fact. However, the fact remains life is lived by the seconds and in the... Read more »

What to do with the oversocial boyfriend

What to do with the oversocial boyfriend
“Hey there I just read your article on guys in relationships and their female friends. I’ve been with my bf for 4 yrs now we were supposed to get married 2 yrs ago But he cheated and lied on several occasions since then. For the past yr he said he’s turn a new page he’s... Read more »
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That is not my stuff

That is not my stuff
Stuff. Everybody has stuff. Physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and any other –al of which you can think. People got it. And since there’s a really good chance you are dating a person, there’s a great chance that the person has stuff. Maybe you can see it. It may be deeply hidden. It may be right... Read more »