Posts tagged "Men"

Men cannot have Women friends if there is sexual tension

Some thoughts on having women friends in relationships. So, I solicited ideas on the Love From The Brain Facebook page and I got an email from a man asking me how he should handle his new relationship and her dislike of his having women friends. Well, sir, I am your Huckleberry. I have many women... Read more »

I struggle with the fourth line of 1 Corinthians 13:5

You don’t have to be a bible thumper or even a religious person to be familiar with the Apostle Paul’s idea of love. This section of the letter Paul sent to the church in Corinth is a staple of weddings, calendars and Pinterest boards. And it’s the fourth line of the fifth verse of the... Read more »

Stealing time from women isn't cool

One of the harsh realities in the relationship game is that there are men out here stealing women’s assets. Her physical, emotional, spiritual and financial assets. And they do it with love. And that’s not cool. The theft begins at the precise moment when he realizes that she wants something he is determined not to... Read more »
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31 questions to help you understand why your lover has that disgusted look on their face

31 questions to help you understand why your lover has that disgusted look on their face
Lovers who live with their lover. I’m talking to you. You ever notice that kind of disgusted look on your lover’s face? You know, that look that says something isn’t right despite the fact that everything seems alright. You see the look but you don’t really understand it because things are good. Bills are paid.... Read more »

An Open Letter to Julien Blanc supporters worldwide

An Open Letter to Julien Blanc supporters worldwide
Dear Julien Blanc supporters, Your fearless master of pickup artistry is taking a beating on the internet and rightfully so. Anyone that advocates treating others in a manner that contradicts with the golden rule is bound to be receive some backlash and that is what your Julien Blanc does. I have watched all the free... Read more »

This is the only thing you need to know about women.

This is the only thing you need to know about women.
Fellows, This is the only thing you need to know about women. They are not men. Period. We live in an age where everything is questioned, reshaped and redefined. All the lines are blurred and as a result new monikers and labels pop up yearly. But I am a simple man. Strip away race, religion,... Read more »
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This is the response to Matt Walsh's man up article

This is the response to Matt Walsh's man up article
I just read a post by Matt Walsh called “Dear single dudes: it’s time to man up” and after reading it I was so moved by the piece I had to write about it. You can read it here. http://themattwalshblog.com/2014/06/19/dear-single-men-time-man-figure/ The message is clear. Men need to get married or at least define their relationships.... Read more »

Everybody plays the fool.

Everybody plays the fool.
“Everybody plays the fool…sometime.” If you are familiar with the song, you know there is no exception to the rule. And there isn’t. It happens to all of us. I remember fresh out of high school I dated a girl who had a legit non-related brother. You know, the brother from another mother that is... Read more »

Happy is a personal responsibility

Happy is a personal responsibility
Happy. Not the easiest thing to be. It’s not the easiest thing to catch. Even the great Declaration of Independence speaks of Providence giving us the pursuit of happiness not happiness itself. Yet, I believe that personal happiness is needed when single and in a relationship and I do believe it is a personal responsibility.... Read more »
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The gray area is where you exist when you get over yourself

The gray area is where you exist when you get over yourself
I have been thinking a lot about “the gray area.” That space between black and white. The place where one tries to exist when being extreme is not really conducive to the relationship. I am a very “this or that” type of person. I have rarely ever done the gray area well and yet I... Read more »