Posts tagged "Love"

Do not let love make you annoying

If I had a LoveFromTheBrain’s top ten rules for relationships and dating, number two would most definitely be do not let love make you annoying. Being in love is not justification for being the cause of anger and/or irritation. One should never want to cause anger and/or irritation and I would think that one should... Read more »

Everybody plays the fool.

“Everybody plays the fool…sometime.” If you are familiar with the song, you know there is no exception to the rule. And there isn’t. It happens to all of us. I remember fresh out of high school I dated a girl who had a legit non-related brother. You know, the brother from another mother that is... Read more »

Happy is a personal responsibility

Happy is a personal responsibility
Happy. Not the easiest thing to be. It’s not the easiest thing to catch. Even the great Declaration of Independence speaks of Providence giving us the pursuit of happiness not happiness itself. Yet, I believe that personal happiness is needed when single and in a relationship and I do believe it is a personal responsibility.... Read more »
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The gray area

The gray area
I have been thinking a lot about “the gray area.” That space between black and white. The place where one tries to exist when being extreme is not really conducive to the relationship. I am a very “this or that” type of person. I have rarely ever done the gray area well and yet I... Read more »

Four seconds of silence

Four seconds of silence
Four seconds of silence. That is how one should answer every question. With four seconds of silence. Then a thoughtful response. Life is lived one second at a time and because it moves so fast we tend to forget this common fact. However, the fact remains life is lived by the seconds and in the... Read more »

Friends in relationships: If they like it, then you love it.

Friends in relationships: If they like it, then you love it.
Every now and then a friend gets into a relationship and all you can think is WTF! And for whatever reason the relationship irks the holy hell out of you and not only do you find yourself hating the relationship, you even begin to consider ways to tell this friend that this thing is all... Read more »
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"My BF is Mr Over Social"

"My BF is Mr Over Social"
“Hey there I just read your article on guys in relationships and their female friends. I’ve been with my bf for 4 yrs now we were supposed to get married 2 yrs ago But he cheated and lied on several occasions since then. For the past yr he said he’s turn a new page he’s... Read more »

That is not my stuff.

Stuff. Everybody has stuff. Physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and any other –al of which you can think. People got it. And since there’s a really good chance you are dating a person, there’s a great chance that the person has stuff. Maybe you can see it. It may be deeply hidden. It may be right... Read more »

"Why would I stay?" - an email response

Hello Sir, I have a question for you about love. I have been in an on again, off again relationship for about 6 years with a gentleman whom I believed I loved. It’s very much alive because of my efforts, I believe I stuck around because I feel comfortable with him and the thought of... Read more »
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Stop doing THAT.

Stop doing THAT Stop doing THAT. Like for real. Stop doing THAT. What is the THAT that I am tell you to stop doing? I don’t know. I’m not in your relationship so I can’t be very specific. In fact, I can’t be specific at all. But I do know that relationships are activities. They... Read more »