Posts tagged "submissive"

Kinky BDSM: Safe Words

Have you ever found yourself in a situation in which the dominant chooses the safe word for you and you are scrambling to remember what it was when your hands start to feel numb? I cannot tell you the number of times I have witnessed a scene like this in which the submissive was given... Read more »

The Young and the Wise: Is Age Just A Number?

Ok, this is the start of a series based on my encounters with a gentleman that is 27 years my senior, we shall call him HC since those are the initials of where he is from. Only DISCLAIMER: I am an adult so please get over it and be mature. We met on one of... Read more »

Is He Really Single?

Well, lets just start with how bad my 2 weeks have been. Between feeling like the Bulldog (I will have to follow up on the Bulldog as he and I still have to have a “heart to heart” about our current situation) is not all he is claiming to be and wanting to release him... Read more »
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Advice: Domme Training

Mistress Julie,  Where in Chicago is it possible to learn domme techniques?  I was surprised to find that there is a distinction between fetish and domme.  It seems that some of the places that market themselves as dominatrix are not. Best, E E: What is it you are looking to learn? Are you a vanilla... Read more »

Letter From The Bulldog

In the past I have usually requested that my play partner correspond with me and let me know how what they were feeling during the scene and how they were feeling afterwards. After threatening with 5 cane swats per day he does not send me his feelings on the scene he finally sent it. He... Read more »

The Engineer

Have you ever tried a “vanilla” dating site and find men that want to pamper you with clothes, shoes, bath items, perfumes and maybe even an exotic trip? You might have stumbled upon a guy that is a bit submissive. In my vanilla life I have tried dating non-kinky men but I find them boring... Read more »
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    Mistress Julie

    I have been in the Chicago BDSM scene for a little over 12 years. I am not serious like many people are, but I also do not take what I do lightly. I have dabbled in many kinky things and currently working on perfecting my bondage techniques. My main goal is to bring the BDSM scene to vanillas that are interested in it in a non-freaky way. This is not only a blog about what I am doing or have done but a place for you to ask questions and hopefully learn more about the scene then what you think is real in porn. Trust me, porn is not real!

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