Posts tagged "BDSM"

Help Needed: Where Do I Begin With BDSM

Hello I read your blog and was very intrigued. I have a guy I am dating and he has a heel and hose fetish. Him and I wearing. Tells me he is “not vanilla”. I am trying to get him to tell me more and I myself am learning. He said he would like to... Read more »

Kinky BDSM: What Are Limits and Why You Need Them

The BDSM lifestyle has so many activities that are kinky, disgusting or illegal. The moment you decided to become a participant in the lifestyle you decided what things you would never do, what you might do and things you cannot live with out. These are limits. For years I have spoken with submissive boys and... Read more »

The Young and the Wise: Is Age Just A Number?

Ok, this is the start of a series based on my encounters with a gentleman that is 27 years my senior, we shall call him HC since those are the initials of where he is from. Only DISCLAIMER: I am an adult so please get over it and be mature. We met on one of... Read more »
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Is He Really Single?

Well, lets just start with how bad my 2 weeks have been. Between feeling like the Bulldog (I will have to follow up on the Bulldog as he and I still have to have a “heart to heart” about our current situation) is not all he is claiming to be and wanting to release him... Read more »

Advice: Domme Training

Mistress Julie,  Where in Chicago is it possible to learn domme techniques?  I was surprised to find that there is a distinction between fetish and domme.  It seems that some of the places that market themselves as dominatrix are not. Best, E E: What is it you are looking to learn? Are you a vanilla... Read more »

The Engineer

Have you ever tried a “vanilla” dating site and find men that want to pamper you with clothes, shoes, bath items, perfumes and maybe even an exotic trip? You might have stumbled upon a guy that is a bit submissive. In my vanilla life I have tried dating non-kinky men but I find them boring... Read more »
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