Posts in category "Submissive"

Kinky BDSM: What Are Limits and Why You Need Them

The BDSM lifestyle has so many activities that are kinky, disgusting or illegal. The moment you decided to become a participant in the lifestyle you decided what things you would never do, what you might do and things you cannot live with out. These are limits. For years I have spoken with submissive boys and... Read more »

Energy and the Connections We Make With Each Other

I have been corresponding with a 63 year old gentleman in the south suburbs of Chicago for a few days now, we shall call him HC. Typically I would not answer messaged from anyone older then my parents, but when I read his message I had this strange connection to him. There are many believers... Read more »

Is He Really Single?

Well, lets just start with how bad my 2 weeks have been. Between feeling like the Bulldog (I will have to follow up on the Bulldog as he and I still have to have a “heart to heart” about our current situation) is not all he is claiming to be and wanting to release him... Read more »
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Letter From The Bulldog

In the past I have usually requested that my play partner correspond with me and let me know how what they were feeling during the scene and how they were feeling afterwards. After threatening with 5 cane swats per day he does not send me his feelings on the scene he finally sent it. He... Read more »

My First "Public Discussion" On Male Chastity

The first time I was asked to give a discussion on my experience with male chastity was at a local dungeon because the original presenter was not able to make it in town for some reason or another. The guy I was dating at the time was out of town on business so that left... Read more »

Making Him Think Outside The Box

As I said in my introduction, I will be writing about my experiences as well as giving advice or writing about certain aspects of BDSM. Here is a cute story about a boy from Rockford and my making him think outside the box. I have always been an outside of the box thinker. This has... Read more »
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    I have been in the Chicago BDSM scene for a little over 12 years. I am not serious like many people are, but I also do not take what I do lightly. I have dabbled in many kinky things and currently working on perfecting my bondage techniques. My main goal is to bring the BDSM scene to vanillas that are interested in it in a non-freaky way. This is not only a blog about what I am doing or have done but a place for you to ask questions and hopefully learn more about the scene then what you think is real in porn. Trust me, porn is not real!

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