Posts in category "Mistress"

Help Needed: Where Do I Begin With BDSM

Hello I read your blog and was very intrigued. I have a guy I am dating and he has a heel and hose fetish. Him and I wearing. Tells me he is “not vanilla”. I am trying to get him to tell me more and I myself am learning. He said he would like to... Read more »

Energy and the Connections We Make With Each Other

I have been corresponding with a 63 year old gentleman in the south suburbs of Chicago for a few days now, we shall call him HC. Typically I would not answer messaged from anyone older then my parents, but when I read his message I had this strange connection to him. There are many believers... Read more »

Is He Really Single?

Well, lets just start with how bad my 2 weeks have been. Between feeling like the Bulldog (I will have to follow up on the Bulldog as he and I still have to have a “heart to heart” about our current situation) is not all he is claiming to be and wanting to release him... Read more »
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Advice: Domme Training

Mistress Julie,  Where in Chicago is it possible to learn domme techniques?  I was surprised to find that there is a distinction between fetish and domme.  It seems that some of the places that market themselves as dominatrix are not. Best, E E: What is it you are looking to learn? Are you a vanilla... Read more »

Advice: Is She Real Or Fake

Advice seeking information on how to spot fake Dommes and how you deal with them. Hello Mistress Julie, My name is D, and I am a sub by birth/switch by necessity. I say that because although I have had a lifelong desire for submissive kink all the girlfriends I’ve had have been vanilla, or subs... Read more »

Letter From The Bulldog

In the past I have usually requested that my play partner correspond with me and let me know how what they were feeling during the scene and how they were feeling afterwards. After threatening with 5 cane swats per day he does not send me his feelings on the scene he finally sent it. He... Read more »
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I Now Own A British "Bulldog"

As a Dominatrix, there are many goals one sets for themselves. My vanilla side wanted to settle down, travel the world, have kids and grow old with the man I would love and adore. After seeing what my vanilla life was giving me I opted to go back to my kinky side and build a... Read more »

My First "Public Discussion" On Male Chastity

The first time I was asked to give a discussion on my experience with male chastity was at a local dungeon because the original presenter was not able to make it in town for some reason or another. The guy I was dating at the time was out of town on business so that left... Read more »
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    Mistress Julie

    I have been in the Chicago BDSM scene for a little over 12 years. I am not serious like many people are, but I also do not take what I do lightly. I have dabbled in many kinky things and currently working on perfecting my bondage techniques. My main goal is to bring the BDSM scene to vanillas that are interested in it in a non-freaky way. This is not only a blog about what I am doing or have done but a place for you to ask questions and hopefully learn more about the scene then what you think is real in porn. Trust me, porn is not real!

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