Posts in category "BDSM"

All I Want For Christmas: Day 5 - Golden Cock Rings

As I was trying to figure out great headlines for the next item on my Christmas wish list, a fellow blogger (will remain nameless unless she wants to reveal herself) gave me the idea for Day 5, 5 golden Cock Rings. Gear Essentials has by far the best cock rings on the planet. I have... Read more »

All I Want For Christmas: Day 4 – A Leather Sleep Sack/Body Bag

Have you ever wished for a sleeping bag that you can use camping for Christmas? One year it was on my list. I was at REI with a guy I was dating and shimmied over to the sleeping bag section and saw all kinds of items that I wanted right then and there, until I... Read more »

All I Want For Christmas: Day 3

All I want for Christmas is you! Yes, MORE OF YOU! You are my readers, the people who ask me for advice, about solutions, for help, for ideas. If it were not for the lovely people of Chicago, I would be a single duck out on the lake with 20 hunters trying to shoot me... Read more »
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All I Want For Christmas: Day 2

All I want for Christmas is a Breath Play mask or hood. Yes I like breath play, I would actually say I LOVE breath play. The feeling of control, the desire to make him pass out but knowing he wants to and denying him that. Check out this little ditty found by a fellow blogger/friend:... Read more »

All I Want For Christmas: Day 1

All I want for Christmas is a boy that can cook and clean. Yes, the first thing on my Christmas list is a boy that can cook and clean. This is very hard to find in one person, trust me I have been searching. First he would have to know how to cook and not... Read more »

Kinky BDSM: Safe Words

Have you ever found yourself in a situation in which the dominant chooses the safe word for you and you are scrambling to remember what it was when your hands start to feel numb? I cannot tell you the number of times I have witnessed a scene like this in which the submissive was given... Read more »
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Kinky BDSM: What Are Limits and Why You Need Them

The BDSM lifestyle has so many activities that are kinky, disgusting or illegal. The moment you decided to become a participant in the lifestyle you decided what things you would never do, what you might do and things you cannot live with out. These are limits. For years I have spoken with submissive boys and... Read more »

The Young and the Wise: Is Age Just A Number?

Ok, this is the start of a series based on my encounters with a gentleman that is 27 years my senior, we shall call him HC since those are the initials of where he is from. Only DISCLAIMER: I am an adult so please get over it and be mature. We met on one of... Read more »

Energy and the Connections We Make With Each Other

I have been corresponding with a 63 year old gentleman in the south suburbs of Chicago for a few days now, we shall call him HC. Typically I would not answer messaged from anyone older then my parents, but when I read his message I had this strange connection to him. There are many believers... Read more »
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Is He Really Single?

Well, lets just start with how bad my 2 weeks have been. Between feeling like the Bulldog (I will have to follow up on the Bulldog as he and I still have to have a “heart to heart” about our current situation) is not all he is claiming to be and wanting to release him... Read more »