The Young and the Wise: Is Age Just A Number?

Ok, this is the start of a series based on my encounters with a gentleman that is 27 years my senior, we shall call him HC since those are the initials of where he is from. Only DISCLAIMER: I am an adult so please get over it and be mature.

We met on one of the sites that I am on and started conversing on August 10th. It started with a subtle message about my love of ass play with men and how it has been a few years since he was fisted by a Mistress. He had asked if I would like to explore a well used slave and if I found him worthy he would be interested in feeling my power unleashed. Of course I was intrigued by this well drafted email that was not like the typical sub/slave response to my profile that is just looking to play and always looking for sex.

I am not in this lifestyle for sex, that is the added bonus when I find the right guy for me. I get tired of the guys that are just interested in chit chat, the ones that want me to tell then what I will do to them and get off while I am sitting here thinking they really want to get together. To me there is more to life then just sex, but yes like all hot blooded women out there in their late 30's early 40's I still love sex just picky with my partners right now.

So after I get this well drawn out short message (I paraphrased the message) I responded to him indicating that he outside of my age category and if he had a current photo that I could see and maybe that would change my mind. his response back blew me out of the water with how he use to ride his bike 100 miles, run marathons and do triathlons. I started to get interested but when he started talking about the his workouts, his involvement with the old ways of the esoteric mystery schools for many years, how he has completely stripped his mind, how all of this has left his mind and body changed and the way he views pleasure.

This here stopped me dead in my tracks. I have found someone that knows about energy play, might know tantra and might know some other things that would be worth while learning from a guy who has 25+ years of learning (he is still learning new techniques). It it unusual to find someone that is older that knows a lot about energy play as it is something that was not as well known or practiced in many western cultures. Just look at how long it took Yoga to become a fad here in the United States.

As these many weeks have gone by and I see him now from time to time as permits, I start to wonder if age is something that should be scrutinized or so I shrug my shoulders and say "age is but the number of years we have been alive, this is not how old we really feel", or do I put a stop to this tryst and gently let HC down?

The conundrum I live in being a woman. Dammed if I do and dammed if I don't. Dammed if I do because I will be seen as a gold digger, someone looking for the father figure in her life, looking for my less famous Hugh Hefner. Dammed if I don't because I will miss out on the experiences he can teach me, the energy that we share, the fact that he is so open to new things. I believe I am going to keep following this path with HC and see where this might go. The best way to think about it is you are all the same age when the lights go out and you let your imagination take control. Stay tuned for more to come.

Mistress Julie

Stay delicious Chicago!

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