My first time

The first time I ever played with a guy I found him to be rather understanding and willing to help me along my journey to finding the inner goddess in me. He came out from the western suburbs where he was staying for the evening, cabbed all the way into the city, then took me... Read more »

UTI From Spit, Who Knew

UTI From Spit, Who Knew
Well gents, I would like to officially say that using spit as a lubricant or slobbering all over your lady friends pussy is not a good idea! I officially have a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) and it was from a guy that happened to be licking that region for awhile and slobbering all over it.... Read more »

I Swear Office, That Is Not My Teddy Bear With A Pole Up His Ass

I Swear Office, That Is Not My Teddy Bear With A Pole Up His Ass
Today Michigan Avenue was shut down for a few hours and I just wanted to state that it was not my S&M Teddy strapped to the light pole with the flag pole up his ass, although that makes me think of something fun to do to a poor boy the friday of IML when it... Read more »
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This Ain't Your Dad's Adult Bookstore

This Ain't Your Dad's Adult Bookstore
So, Saturday I decided to finally meet a guy, I shall call him Magnum for now, that I have been emailing and texting for a few months. I thought he fell off the face of the earth when I had not received a message in a couple of weeks, but he stated with his job... Read more »

Now Where Did I Put That Dildo? Storage Ideas For Your Sex Toys

These little guys are great for organizing certain toys that you do not need a large container for, or if you have things of considerable weight since they sit right on the floor.
So I got asked today to write a post on the proper storage of sex toys. When I read the comment from a fellow blogger, it brought to mind the Ikea commercial I was sent a few years ago with the kid playing with his mothers vibrator. He is playing with it like it is... Read more »

For My Two Star Crossed Lovers

Sorry readers, but this post is for two very special people in my life. I have advised them separately and together on many things involving their relationship in the past few months I have gotten to know them better. They were recently hit with a brick wall, but I feel it is a wall in... Read more »
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Help Needed: Where Do I Begin With BDSM

Hello I read your blog and was very intrigued. I have a guy I am dating and he has a heel and hose fetish. Him and I wearing. Tells me he is “not vanilla”. I am trying to get him to tell me more and I myself am learning. He said he would like to... Read more »

The Manti Te’o Scandal, Could Something Like This Happen To You?

So by now we have all heard about Manti Te’o, the Mormon linebacker for the University of Notre Dame, and the scandal involving a girlfriend named Lennay Kekua. I am not going to speak on the whole thing that is going on as I do not know the full story and things are still developing,... Read more »

Clippers: I Never Knew This Was A Fetish

So last night I was bored and decided to search porn and find some fetish flicks that might bring some interesting things to discuss with some of my potential playmates. I came across one that made me have to seek out information, and I was surprised to see this is not something that is mainstream... Read more »
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Steubenville High School Football, Rape And The Video Leaked By Anonymous

It is a sad day in the world when you are checking in on your fellow ChicagoNow bloggers and find in your feed a Huffington Post article about the rape that occurred on August 22, 2012 by football players of Steubenville High School in Steubenville, Ohio. The most disgusting part about this is the video... Read more »