Dear North Suburban Submissive: Shit Or Get Off The Pot

Dear North Suburban Submissive: Shit Or Get Off The Pot
Now, I know that I am not one to mince words over how often I respond to a submissive. Hell this BITCH doesn’t even have time to deal with the newspaper let alone some of these guys that claim they are submissive. If I respond to you, you best be on your A game. So... Read more »

Sex, Lies, and Conventioneers: The Real Story Google Image Search Revealed

Sex, Lies, and Conventioneers: The Real Story Google Image Search Revealed
So this past week I was supposed to have a week long play date with the Disrespectful Conventioneer (DC for short), but I knew something was going to go wrong from the moment I got up that first day, until the time I left his hotel room the following morning. It all started over the... Read more »

My First: My First Adult Toy Was....A Vibrator

My First: My First Adult Toy Was....A Vibrator
I am sure many adults my age have had a sex toy of some sort, and we all have that great first story. The picture is very similar to my first vibrator. However, mine was from 2000 and was much thinner. It is amazing how much the sex toy industry has changed in the past... Read more »
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My first time

The first time I ever played with a guy I found him to be rather understanding and willing to help me along my journey to finding the inner goddess in me. He came out from the western suburbs where he was staying for the evening, cabbed all the way into the city, then took me... Read more »

UTI From Spit, Who Knew

UTI From Spit, Who Knew
Well gents, I would like to officially say that using spit as a lubricant or slobbering all over your lady friends pussy is not a good idea! I officially have a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) and it was from a guy that happened to be licking that region for awhile and slobbering all over it.... Read more »

I Swear Office, That Is Not My Teddy Bear With A Pole Up His Ass

I Swear Office, That Is Not My Teddy Bear With A Pole Up His Ass
Today Michigan Avenue was shut down for a few hours and I just wanted to state that it was not my S&M Teddy strapped to the light pole with the flag pole up his ass, although that makes me think of something fun to do to a poor boy the friday of IML when it... Read more »
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This Ain't Your Dad's Adult Bookstore

This Ain't Your Dad's Adult Bookstore
So, Saturday I decided to finally meet a guy, I shall call him Magnum for now, that I have been emailing and texting for a few months. I thought he fell off the face of the earth when I had not received a message in a couple of weeks, but he stated with his job... Read more »

Now Where Did I Put That Dildo? Storage Ideas For Your Sex Toys

These little guys are great for organizing certain toys that you do not need a large container for, or if you have things of considerable weight since they sit right on the floor.
So I got asked today to write a post on the proper storage of sex toys. When I read the comment from a fellow blogger, it brought to mind the Ikea commercial I was sent a few years ago with the kid playing with his mothers vibrator. He is playing with it like it is... Read more »

For My Two Star Crossed Lovers

Sorry readers, but this post is for two very special people in my life. I have advised them separately and together on many things involving their relationship in the past few months I have gotten to know them better. They were recently hit with a brick wall, but I feel it is a wall in... Read more »
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Help Needed: Where Do I Begin With BDSM

Hello I read your blog and was very intrigued. I have a guy I am dating and he has a heel and hose fetish. Him and I wearing. Tells me he is “not vanilla”. I am trying to get him to tell me more and I myself am learning. He said he would like to... Read more »
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    I have been in the Chicago BDSM scene for a little over 12 years. I am not serious like many people are, but I also do not take what I do lightly. I have dabbled in many kinky things and currently working on perfecting my bondage techniques. My main goal is to bring the BDSM scene to vanillas that are interested in it in a non-freaky way. This is not only a blog about what I am doing or have done but a place for you to ask questions and hopefully learn more about the scene then what you think is real in porn. Trust me, porn is not real!

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