How to be Sexy!

How to be Sexy!

Sex appeal is powerful; it sells records even when the “artist” can’t sing. It gets ratings on television even when there is no plot. And it can even get you paid more at work.

Sexiness should not be confused with beauty. Beauty is something that people are born with. We are biologically programmed to believe that certain traits such as symmetry, flushed lips, clear eyes and rosy cheeks are beautiful. Sex appeal is a way of being and it can be cultivated. Sexiness is powerful and irresistible. If you want to increase your sex appeal follow these simple steps.

Take good care of yourself

You don’t have to be beautiful or skinny or ripped to be sexy. But if you really want to boost your sex appeal you should take good care of yourself. Start by eating healthy and working out. Even if you don’t look like a Baywatch cast member the fact that you take enough pride in your appearance to put the effort in will make you super attractive.

You should also dress well. Ladies, you don’t have to wear mini-skirts and low cut tops to be hot. Guys, it isn’t necessary to wear a body glove to be sexy. You can dress sexy by showing off one asset at a time or by wearing a nicely put together suit that exudes power and confidence.

Be confident

In order to be sexy you must first believe that you are sexy. Flaunt your attributes and own your weaknesses.  Don’t compliment fish that will instantly lower your sex appeal. Avoid asking people if you look fat. Don’t ask your date if her ex had larger man parts than you do. Once you convince yourself that you are attractive inside and out and that you have a lot to offer you will be so sexy it will seem like you’re magnetic.

It is worth noting that confidence should not be confused with arrogance. You should be proud of your strengths and accepting of your weaknesses but don’t get delusional. Always remember that although you are awesome you aren’t better than everyone else in the world.

Be passionate

When it comes to outward appearance what constitutes sex appeal varies from person to person. Everyone has  different turn-ons. Some people go crazy for big brown eyes while others think blue is the hottest color. One person may think curves are super sexy while another may find an athletic build more appealing. Although everyone’s taste is different passion is universally sexy. If you want to be hot be passionate about something whether it’s saving the whales or writing music. Being about something is hot.

Also, be passionate about your partner. Don’t give stiff hugs and half hearted kisses be passionate. Passion is sexy.

Slow down

To instantly turn up your sex appeal simply slow down. Slow down your rate of speech. Pause between sentences. If you’re out on a date when you get up to use the restroom don’t scurry across the restaurant but instead strut slowly and confidently. At the end of the night, don’t rush into kissing your date.

Go slow. It’s sexier.

Work it, sexy!!

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