DIY Cheat Sheet for Valentine's Day

Valentine’s Day is typically thought of as an occasion for exchanging flowers, cards, candy and or chocolates. For some it is a night spent enjoying romantic dinners, all in order to capture the hearts of one’s intended. For others it’s just another day so why make a big deal about it. What I’ve learned as... Read more »

What Makes His, Hers and Ours Candles So Addictive?

Making Love Better TwoGether has launched an exclusive set of His, Hers & Ours sensual soy candles. As a relationship educator I’ve found that while it’s easy to fall in love it can be sometimes challenging to stay there. Once you factor in the job, the mortgage, chores and possibly kids you have your hands full and... Read more »

No-Nonsense Way I'm Choosing ME!

I’ve made probably a million choices in 2015. Some were epic failures and then some of the choices were just wrong. They were wrong for me, and ultimately who I thought that I was supposed to be, told I would be and chose to be. Somewhere in between failing, falling down and getting back I... Read more »


TOUCH HER THERE… YES THERE!  7 Tips FOR HIM to Become a More Attentive Lover Have you ever wondered why she’s not stimulated, overheated, turned on or wet? Well it’s because she hasn’t been stimulated, overheated or turned on to get wet. I’ve heard, maybe I said it myself “You’re only as great as your... Read more »

What I Learned About Myself While Watching "Being Mary Jane"

“Being Mary Jane” began with a mirror of reflection into our dirty laundry. Dirty laundry that I might add, we weren’t ready to hang out on the line in front of everyone. BUT there it was, revealing us to us; but I’m appreciating seeing so many of us in the bravery of being Mary Jane. ... Read more »

LOVE Intertwined

EVERYONE Wants to BE Loved but not everyone knows how to give Love, is Love & quite a few struggle with receiving Love. The funny thing about LOVE is that it doesn’t have to be perfect it just needs to have a willingness of Consistency, Care & Commitment.  The rest are in the details of... Read more »

Strong as Glass

I had the awesome pleasure of having afternoon Sushi and Tea with the beautiful Goapele last week. (Pronounced gwa-puh-LAY) Yes Goapele the singer and songwriter from the Bay Area.  It was great sitting down with her and getting to know more about her, her journey and her music. Her new cd “Strong as Glass” has... Read more »

The Lessons of Extraordinary Love and Extraordinary Loss--By a Guy

As a Relationship Educator I am blessed to encounter many amazing conversations about love, life and the pursuit of happiness. Today I am honored to share one man’s (Maybe many men) perspective on his love lessons learned, extraordinary and extraordinary loss. “Unless it is mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it’s a waste of time. There are... Read more »

Why We Love Pillow Talk at Refuge Live Chicago (And You Should, Too!)

Relationships are hard. Building healthy relationships is some of the hardest work that you will ever do! As a Relationship Educator who has seen and experienced a little bit of everything I’m here to tell you that it’s worth it! We’ve seen longevity in relationships, people making it work and love blossoming in a world... Read more »

What Will Turn Down for What Be Like in 10 Years?

Everyone wants to turn up for everything! Living life like there’s no tomorrow. I get it! That’s a great idea but where’s the plan for after turning up? We are drinking, smoking, twerking, dancing, and neglecting our finances, bills, and responsibilities in the name of TURN UP! So I was thinking, I was thinking! Here... Read more »