What Do I Mean?
Think about what you mean as a being. Document it. Think about what you mean to the people that you are from. Document it. What do you mean (verb) to put into the universe and world? Document it. What do you mean (verb) to communicate to others? Document it. What do you mean (verb) as an active existence? Document it. Your meaning (noun) and meaning (verb) define your passive and active power, and motivation. The degree to which it is clear, without conflict - inner and outer, is the degree of force with which you can act and enact. Means are money and assets. Mean the verb is aggression, definition and clarity to communicate.
What Do They Mean?
Sometimes if you are clear within yourself, what they mean does not matter, and you shouldn't worry about it. If they mean to commandeer your means (money and assets), or take away and override your aggression and clarity, then avoid them. If they mean to allow you your space to think and grow, they are great. If they want to be supportive, without leveraging your dependence, that is fine. They need to be they, and live their own lives.
What Does Any of It Mean?
The great news is that there is one reality that fits all things, we just have to find it. The not-so-great news is that we may only have one part of it. Back to the great news, which is others have the other parts of reality, and other perspectives to get to the future. So be decent, friendly and sociable to get to know other people, and other ways to see and do things. Life is fun. It started variously, and split apart so that those beings could inform it back, and provide a pathway to the future. Network and grow.