Did you ever want to know what you would be like to date? What do you need to spuce up to be attractive?
EXERCISE: Set up 2 chairs across from each other. Imagine you are at a restaurant booth. Role play the ideal date between a man and a woman. Put yourself on one side and then the other side. What would you say as the man? What would you say as the woman? Swap sides at least 4 times.
If you find yourself rolling over silly because you have never tried role playing the other gender, this is positive - you are broadening your perspective. If you found those few things that make you a FIND as a date, wonderful. If you found and set aside your annoying habits, that is also wonderful.