Tag: #love

If You Believe You Won't Meet Someone, You Won't

Here is what many people in the dating world don’t know: our thoughts create our reality. What we believe, we see. What we don’t believe, we can’t call into our lives. One of the things I help people with in my work, is eliminating their scarcity mindset. If you believe you will never find love,... Read more »

How You May Be Keeping Yourself From What You Actually Want

The nature of life is change. Everything is changing, all the time. Everything is temporary. Life runs in cycles. What we lose, always come around again in another form. In order to feel at peace, we have to embrace, or at least accept this simple fact of life: life is about change. And we also... Read more »

What We Are All Yearning For. And Why We Can't Find It.

In the world of love, we have been taught to look for chemistry. And compatibility. And while those things matter, of course, what we are all really seeking and don’t know it is this: a soul connection. First with yourself, and then with another person. The problem is, this elusive type of connection can only... Read more »
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Dating Is Not About This

Dating is not about finding your person. Or a person. Most people don’t understand that dating is never about finding love with another person. Dating is about learning to understand your own patterns and changing what needs to be changed if those patterns have not gotten you what you want or deserve. In order to... Read more »

Stop Taking Other People's Feelings Personally

The number one thing I teach couples how to do is to LISTEN to each other. Sounds simple, right? Sure, simple. But not easy. I teach couples the skill of holding space for each other which means we listen and allow someone to tell us how they feel even when it’s difficult. Typically when someone we... Read more »

Is It Love Or Is It Projection?

Many of us decide we want to keep a relationship going at any cost. Even when our partner reveals themselves to be someone we didn’t want them to be. Even when our partner does not protect the sacredness of our relationship. Even when someone betrays our trust, repeatedly fails to show up for us, or... Read more »
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Act As If To Feel As If

How we feel about ourselves is the foundation for everything in our life, especially relationships. When we love ourselves unconditionally, we choose partners who do as well. We feel attracted to healthy and loving people. And we know how to sustain deep connections. When we struggle with self-love and self-acceptance, we are attracted to people... Read more »

If you're wondering if they're interested, they're probably not

The number one criteria another person must fulfill before you decide to invest your time in them is a clear and consistent demonstration of their interest in you. And a clear demonstration of interest in you equals consistent effort. If someone keeps you wondering about their level of interest in you, their level of interest... Read more »