WHO IS TO BLAME
Who is the Agressor Who is the Victim
Who is the Harrasser -- Who is Harrassed
I can only fix me
If I say I am to Blame then I get it half right, because there are many things out of my control that I can not fix. But I can fix my contribution to misaligned awareness, a corrupt soul pattern, and immaturity that stands overly proud of itself among other things. If I say it is all my fault I get a clear notion of what is and isn't actually my fault. Try it, it is liberating. And you will be less likely to play the Blame Game.
The broadest notion is that we all are at fault. And in many ways that is true. There is so much about ourselves that we never check its origins or what it supports. Every once in a while, we need to know how we contribute to what is and refocus on what should be.
I have met so many people that say 'I want it easy,' 'I want it comfortable.' Do you want to devolve and put your backbone and spine outside of yourself? Oysters have soft skin and sit protected in their bone. They have no spine. The only thing they create of value is pearls, and then they hide. An integrated backbone and spine means you know life is difficult and you are prepared to meet the challenge. You have enough versatility built in, and as potential, to meet almost any challenge that befalls you. When you hit the limit of that there is transcendence or the God of Faith.
I don't want to be a mollusk, do you?
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