The other day, ChicagoNow's Alicia Eler wrote what I thought was a
fairly straight-forward piece: the T
op 25 Most Homophobic Moments of
2009. Her selections--from pop cultural sideshows like Carrie "I
believe in opposite marriage" Prejean, to more nuanced incidences like
Castor Semenya's gender testing, to the tragic murder of
19-year-old Jorge Mercado--seemed spot on to me. Commentors seemed to
disagree. I thought, for a post meant to raise awareness about hate, it
sure did generate a lot of, well, hate.
I was educated in the third wave of feminism. Women's studies was moving toward Gender Studies. We read Backlash AND Stiffed; For Her Own Good AND The Hearts of Men. We discussed the crisis of masculinity and the differences between "hermaphrodite" and "intersexed" alongside patriarchy and objectification. I took an entire class based largely around one of my favorite quotes, from Judith Butler: "Gender is a kind of imitation for which there exists no original." Because of this, I see large parallels--and more than parallels, overlaps--between the women's rights movement and the gay rights movement.
It's also safe to say that feminism largely influenced many of my feelings on gay rights and gay culture, as I believe no one should be judged, outcast, penelized, abused or otherwise marginalized because of who they are and, more specifically, genetic factors they cannot change, whether that's the presence of an XX chromosomes or an attraction the members of the same sex.
Incidentally, I'm currently compiling quotes from women about whether or not they call themself a feminist and why, so I've been doing a lot of thinking about what it does or doesn't mean to be a feminist today. What if you're pro-life? What if you like to make dinner for your family? Is there a checklist of issues that you need to agree with (a
purity test, as some might call it)?
Reading through the comment's Alicia's blog--which ranged from merely ignorant or misinformed to outright homophobic and hateful--I was affirmed in my personal belief that modern feminism needs to continue and increase its support on the issues in the LBGT community.
Feminism certainly hasn't been mute on the subject. NOW lists Marriage Equality as one of it's important, though not key,
issues. The Feminist Majority Foundation (publisher of Ms. magazine) was a vocal and active opponent of Prop 8 and fights for marriage equality; Ms. magazine also updates news on marriage equality, hate crimes and other LGBT news.
But is it enough?
So many issues at play (the right to privacy, the need for
interpretations of religion to be kept out of laws, the right to keep
the government out of your personal and private decisions, the breaking
of traditional sexual norms, gender roles and definitions, on and on)
criss-cross back and forth between the women's movement and LGBT
movement. The gay rights movement is redefinining gender in America
today just as much as the second wave of feminism did in the 1960s and
1970s. When conservatives and Mormons joined hands, they
passed Prop 8 in California. Think what we could accomplish if feminism and the LGBT movement joined forces.
I think many women today distance themselves from the word
feminism because it's often (presumably negatively) associated with the politically-motivated movement of lesbian feminism of the 1970s. (Of course, now the association is stripped of all its social-statement intent and is more often interpreted as, more simply, "a man-hating lesbian feminist.") And I admit, I can't stand this association--but only because it's an inaccurate portrayal of mainstream feminism today. But far from further distancing ourselves from it, I think to move into the next stage of feminism, embracing and fighting for LGBT rights is imperative. After all, isn't fighting for equality what feminism does best?
But that's enough from me now. What do you think?
2 Comments
M. Wolff said:
I completely agree. Feminism is rooted in fighting for equality, and we should concern ourselves with equality for all, whether it be based on gender, sexual preference, or race, religion, class, etc.
I know it's not a new idea, but perhaps we need to come up with a new name for us, that encompasses more than just women's rights. And then we can define what we are, and get away for the incorrect stereotype of the bra-burning man hater.
Cassandra Gaddo said:
Changing the word "feminism" is something I've thought about, too. Naomi Wolf recently suggested changing it to something like "Doing The Right Thing," to strip the movement of the negative association with the word "feminism." However, I'm a big believer that you have to know your history to know where you're going. To abandon the word is abandoning the history of the movement and saying that everything that happened in the first, second and third waves of feminism isn't important--or, that we're now "post-feminism" (which we're not) and can move on from that whole messy, angry chapter of our lives. Plus, I think changing the word because it makes some people uncomfortable is giving in to your detractors.
What do you think would be the right word to use in its place?
(Also, M. Wolff, I see you changed your photo! I'd like to think I had some hand in that.)
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