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Readers chime in on divorce conversation
A recently got an email from a fan. Well, she may not be a fan anymore since I wrote a blog saying that you shouldn't be staying married just for the sake of the kids if you are miserable in your relationship. While I try not to get upset with differing opinions, this woman's email to me was totally out of line. You be the judge, since I'm posting her email, (along with my response) in this post.
Staying married for the kids- not always the best choice
I was recently on the phone with a friend of mine. She's been teetering on getting a divorce for two years.
"How's it going?" I asked.
"Eh," she said. "I think I need to keep the family together for the kids sake."
"I think that's a terrible idea," I said.
Let me tell you why....
Rielle Hunter gives spiritual warriors a bad name
I was driving home from work yesterday and I got an email from someone telling me I had to watch the Oprah interview with Rielle Hunter- John Edward's mistress.
"She says she's spiritual- but really- she's so full of it!" The email said.
So I watched the re-run at 11pm last night. I still feel sick to my stomach.
Don't take it personally!!
So I recently put in my facebook status, "If I have so many friends, why have only 127 people read my blog in the last few days?" I was kind of amazed at the message I received from one of them, accusing me of being a "one-sided" friend.
Could using intuition be the next wave of healthcare?
I've had the pleasure of interviewing best selling author Dr. Judith Orloff several times. She is a medical professional who also happens to be an intuitive healer. When she was growing up, her parents didn't encourage her gifts so she would "fit in". Now, she's "out of the closet" so to speak, and encouraging others to tap in to their "Second Sight".
Write your kids a letter- NOW!
Today, my son turns four. It's hard to imagine my life without him. I told him that many times today, all to be told, "Move Mommy- I need my fiyah twuck!"
So in this digital age- where everything is texted and tweeted- I am going to take a minute to write him a note. I will print it up and put it somewhere safe for him to read someday. I suggest you do the same...
Give up control- and "allow"...
I was talking to a friend yesterday who was having a rough day- computer troubles- work concerns- kid birthday parties stress.... basic life stuff. I too was worried about things. Mainly trying to get my son up for school. We haven't been able to get him ready for school lately without having to issue several "time-outs". (Some people talk about "the terrible two's- but for us, it's been "the terrible three's"!) And with the time change- I was sure he would be tired and confrontational.
As I plopped in to bed, I looked up at the ceiling before grabbing one of my 20 woo-woo books from my night stand and said, "What do I need to hear?"
Addicted to psychics? Get a grip!
A letter from a reader...
Dear Jen:
I am wondering if you can recommend some psychics for me? I have been using them for years, and I haven't had much luck with my "usual suspects", as they say. Could you tell me- out of all the people you've interviewed- who is worth calling or visiting? I am really looking for some advice in my career and love life.
Thanks-
Lost in Westmont
If you THINK about getting some- you just might!
Did you know that just THINKING about someone you really dig can actually cause them to have a physical reaction? This isn't my "woo-woo" stuff talking either, there's actual research behind it. 
Jesus likes dancing
My last post about God loving everyone, even exotic dancers- generated this response from someone with the name "Heisthelight"...
God loves you- even if you're a stripper
An email to share from a reader...
"Dear Jen-
I wanted to ask you a question about judgment. I was raised Catholic, and feel guilty about everything. I am a single mom and because of this tough economy, I have had to resort to getting a second job dancing for a strip club. Does that mean I'm going to hell?
Positive attitude a good reminder during winter blues
It's January in Chicago. Ick. It's cold, and snowing and most of us have broken our resolutions. Lots of people get depressed, or feel down. So what could possibly motivate us to feel better? How about choosing to be happy?
Dear Abby meets "I'm Spiritual Dammit.."
I got a note tonight on facebook from a reader who wanted to know "Where can a good girl find a guy who won't take her for granted?" I've never been asked about relationships advice- but I do know from interviewing lots of spiritual guru's that when you're LOOKING for love- something is missing inside.
Three things you need to know this holiday season
If you want to be spiritual for the holidays, I have a couple of ground rules... They're pretty simple and I've already seen several people I know and love break them. Of course, in my attempt not to judge for the month of December, I am torn whether or not to share... but for now, I will say this is guidance...and not judgment.. (You buying this? Cuz I'm not sure that I am..)
More judgments
Trying to go through my day still without judging- and I got all rattled after getting a note from a friend. She was ripping on a friend of mine and I got this sick feeling in my stomach. Why do some people have to think they are better than others?
The judging challenge continues
I put out a challenge last week on vocalo.org asking people to stop judging for the month of December. It's their "Month of Faith". I figured- since Jesus said not to "judge"- let's see how many people can follow the word of the guy they say they worship. I thought it would be do-able. But after just a few days- I'm embarrassed to say that I officially suck at this.
Can you stop judging others for a month?
I've been asked to take part in vocalo.org's "Month on Faith" by issuing a challenge to my readers and the vocalo listeners. This challenge doesn't have to be specific to any particular faith- (which is good, because I am a combo platter..) and should make others want to share their experiences.
Dear Oprah and Xm Radio: Your subscribers deserve a refund
I am just curious- but does Oprah Winfrey listen to her own radio station? If she does, how can a woman with such high standards for television and her magazine possibly be okay with the train wreck that has become XM 156? For a woman who is known for "walking her talk"- I think the message boards on Oprah.com tell a very different story. 
Robin Meade's new book is a page turner
If you're a fan of HLN, then you already are familiar with the greeting, "Good mornin' sunshine!" This is Robin Meade's token line as she informs us of the day's news and views for Morning Express. It's hard to imagine Robin having a bad day- but did you know she's suffered from self esteem issues? And now- she wants to help us all feel good from the inside out.
