The Female Orgasm-Infographic Style

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!

I served up the scoop on semen, infographic style and now, in my never ending web browsing, I got some facts on the lady parts as well.  Many thanks Koldcast.TV via the Sexademic.

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Last Minute Wednesgay

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!

So I know that this post is coming at the last hour of Wednesgay, but better late than never right?

I found this cute video via Towleroad and had to share it, this kid is pretty cute:


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This is not what I meant...

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!

When I posted Hot Chocolate's "You Sexy Thing" as the baby-makin' song of the week, suggesting a strip tease, this is not what I meant.

However, this is hilarious, he's got the first part right-just gotta work on makin' sure the underwear is clean.  Also, tighty-whities might not be your knickers of choice for such a venture.

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The Game

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!

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My younger sister came to visit over the weekend, and no doubt a number of shenanigans went down, including, but not limited to getting dressed up and going out on the town, lots of shopping, and an appearance at the House of Sushi and Noodle.

Upon retrieving her at O'Hare she quickly filled me in on the status of her "roster." That's right, the roster of men she's dating at present.  I am in awe of women like her.  She is a magnet- hot, fun, and very into sports.  Obvi why she's going out with enough guys to warrant a team list.

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Baby Makin' Song of the Week: You Sexy Thing by Hot Chocolate

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!


You Sexy Thing - Hot Chocolate

These days I'm in a classic mood. When Hot Chocolate's, "You Sexy Thing" came on my iPod during a run this week, I thought to myself, baby-maker!

A bit on the goofier side, this song always reminds me of stripping, which is why it's a perfect baby-makin' song of the week. Put this tune and do a little strip tease for your lover. It may wield a little giggle, but who doesn't like a little silly sex every now and again?
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Sex? There's an App for That.

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!

Your iPhone can do many things, it can find you a restaurant, allows you to play a mean game of euchre, and now it can also help you get creative in the sack.

There are a wealth of sexy apps for the iPhone despite Apple's attempt to remove overtly sexual content. You can find apps for almost any kind of boobs or fetish, you can also turn your phone into a tool for love-making and online dating.  For instance 69 Lite, an app introduced earlier this year features, whadda ya know, 69 fully illustrated sex positions with detailed descriptions. The app allows you to mark your favorites, or randomly cycle through-with shake support.

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Wednesgay: A Love Story

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!

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Crate and Barrel and Daily Candy have joined together to hold the Ultimate Wedding Contest. The contest asks couples to submit their love story in 100 words or less. Visitors to the site are asked to vote for their favorite pair of to-be weds. The prize is $100,000 towards the winning couple's dream wedding and the services of celebrity wedding planner, Jo Gartin.

Chicago native Gregory J. and his partner Jonathan are currently the 2nd runners up.  The story of these two was brought to my attention by a mutual friend of Gregory and mine who told me that they were a couple, not only deeply in love, but also deeply committed to speaking out for marriage equality and LGBT rights.  Today, in Washington D.C. they will be going to the courthouse to register for their marriage license.

Gregory and Jonathan's path has not been an easy one. In August of 2008 Jonathan was the victim of a violent hate crime in which he was beaten to the point of unconsciousness and suffered both mental and physical trauma.  Throughout his recovery, Gregory stood by his side, encouraging him to heal by speaking out about his experience.  Both have become activists for civil rights and the LGBT community.  Jonathan contributed to a speech read at a protest in Boston and will speak at a LGBT march in Maine, he also authors a blog called Stuff On My Mind.

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HIV Gangstas

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!

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I would be Lady STD Killa, obvi.

Dating Advice inspired by the Mathematical Order of Operations

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Erin K.

One sassy lady ready to give the dish on love, sex, dating, and relationships!

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The amount of time one should spend with a person before having sex seems to be a hot topic amongst the blogosphere...maybe just a hot topic in general in this post sexual revolution world. 

We've been liberated-but somehow sex still complicates things, emotions get involved despite our best efforts to leave them out of the process. Why not revert to the problem solving skills we learned in high school to make sense of it all?

The Urban Dater wrote a post today showcasing his male version of the order of operations for dating in response to a tweet from @lildevilmama who was inspired to post about the very same order of operations by one of my fave/fello ChiNow bloggers, Jess Downey of All the Single Ladies

The gist-how should a dating relationship go? What is the right order to put a relationship in to make sure things turn out well for both parties?  I'm going to give this one a shot with the old high school algebra mnemonic device used to help remember the order of operations, Please Excuse My Dear Aunt Sally:

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Baby Makin' Song of the Week: Let's Get It On by Marvin Gaye

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Erin K.

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Let's Get It On - Marvin Gaye

Perhaps the most classic of all baby makin' songs, Let's Get It On by Marvin Gay needs no introduction. 

Grab your lover, tell them, that if he feels, like you feel, sugar, c'mon.  C'MON, let's get it on.

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