Dead Priest's Alleged "Wife" Sues Estate
A Des Plaines woman claims that she and an Ordained Catholic Priest, who was the Pastor of St. James Catholic Church, lived as husband and wife from 1994 until his death in 2007.
She further asserts that he deceived her by changing his will without her knowledge and, if the court does not intervene, it will cause her to lose her Des Plaines home.
According to the complaint, Edwin Bohula and Irene Serwa met in 1959 when she was a student at St. Fidelis Grammar School and he was the assistant pastor. They became reacquainted in 1994 and began a sexual relationship, despite Edwin's role as a priest. Their relationship, the complaint alleges, was "exclusive" and Edwin would give Irene cards addressed "To My Wife."
By 1998, Edwin was living with Irene full time in her Des Plaines home and convinced her to "seal their relationship" by placing the home she owned (called the "Crabtree property" in the complaint) in joint tenancy with him.
In 2006, without Irene's knowledge, Erwin met with a lawyer to create a trust conveying his interest in the property to the Dominican Sisters of Chicago Rosary Hill Convalescent Home.
In 2007, Erwin died. Now, Irene wants the court to declare her sole owner of the Crabtree property and the Sisters to relinquish their interest.
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Craig Kanalley said:
What a strange suit. Funny thing is I can actually see this really happening, a Catholic prmiest living another life on the side. Unfortunate what this woman has to deal with.
Julie Wernau said:
This is the stuff reality TV is made of.
KayNKansas said:
What a con job that 'priest' did on her. I read the complaint. I am not an attorney. Irene Serwa Boohula and Edwin Bouhala placed the home she owned in joint tenancy, which is a matter of public record. If the County Real Estate Appraisal office doesn't have it, they should. Unless he lied to US Census officers, they should have a record as a census is conducted every 10 years. The "lawyer" who drew up the trust conveying his interest to the Dominican Sisters apparently was not aware that jointly owned properties cannot be placed in a trust without the approval of the co-owner. Interesting. They've all been conned. Chicago Now, please follow up on the outcome. My money is on Irene.
hrh said:
I am most interested in what the actions of the good sisters will be. Will they do the right thing? Or will they behave like the all-male Bish Club and stonewall, obfuscate, lie, intimidate, pontificate, etc, etc.
lovellyone said:
You have it all wrong, the con job is by the alleged Irene Bohuls, she is a person who would do anything and hurt anyone to get what she wants. No one knows the whole story, but a will is a will and should be settled in a timely manner, all she is doing is dragging her heels and making a mockery of a fine and generous priest. I know this first hand, I was a parishioner of the church he served.
shewhoknows said:
Please... you have no idea of what Father's other life was like outside of the parish.
uh_oh said:
I'm not a lawyer either, but according to the cook county recorder, Irene signed a quitclaim deed and then put her property in a trust with the 'good' father. This will be messy and maybe impossible for her to come out of whole.
mimigook said:
It's just like the old saying goes.....if he does it with you he'll do it to you. He was lying to his church, why should she have believed anything he said to her? She's getting just what she deserves for messing with a priest. She may win on legally but she is just as corrupt as he was.
Johnny Weak said:
This is one of the many problems the catholic church has. It's not the fourteenth century anymore. Let these people get married, in no way does it effect their ability to lead a church (see every other christian chuch) and it will save a lot of young boys from having their innocence stolen.
June said:
The Catholic Church is one kooky religion with lotsa kooky folks. Why do any sane people stay in this ridiculous cult?
hrh said:
They can't wean themselves off the Kool-Aid.
truthis said:
Because it is the One True Church.
truthis said:
This "lady" was the priest's caregiver, NOT his wife. She was paid to take care of him as a caregiver. Remember, "things are not always as they seem". This priest was a priest, through and through. Never doubt that!
hrh said:
Truthis is a prime example of what prolonged Bish Club Kool-Aid addiction will do to one's brain.
shewhoknows said:
I checked with Social Security, Irene was never paid to take care of Father but she has paid dearly.
Kenneth said:
Unlike California and a few other jurisdictions, Illinois does not recognize common law marriage. The claims of the purported "wife" should be dismissed. However, she may have other claims recognized under the common law based on equity.
Kenneth
truthis said:
Thank you Kenneth for stating no common law in Illinois. By the way, it is our understanding he owned over half the house because of all the bills, mortgages, and taxes he paid on it. In addition to remodeling it so he could live there in his senior years. And now she decides to drag his name through the mud?
CommonSense said:
One True church......PLEASE!?!?!?!? I agree w/ HRH about the Kool-aide addiction! "JUST SAY NO!" -Nancy Reagan
CommonSense said:
And truthis......Ha! Pretty funny man! Curious how you know the inner workngs of this situation? "Your unstanding?" Maybe you were this guy's accounts payable and HR dept. Part of the inner circle perhaps??? Cheers.....raises my glass of Kool-aide. Curious how this plays out!
Robert J. Herman said:
You know, I happen to know both Irene Serwa and Rev. Edwin V. Bohula, (CAPT,CHC,USN-Ret), very well. The only thin wrong here is Father made one mistake. He trusted a woman that he shouldn't of. Irene new Father since she was a teenager. He helped her a allot through her life. She's collecting disability for mental reasons. Father was her sponsor and helped her to get it. Father was a one of a kind priest. From holding dying kids in Vietnam who didn't have their parents there with them, to saving a dying Church in Lemont Illinois. Father never stopped helping people. He use to preach that if someone was able to "walk up the hill" at St. James and ask for help, "they wouldn't be refused". He helped until the day he passed. After he died I seen allot of the ones he trusted and helped turn on him. Irene Serwa is one of them. I was visiting Father at Loyola Hospital a few years back and he told me that his half of the house was to go to the Sisters at Rosary Hill. Father was always trying to do good for everyone. Irene's house was in foreclosure, Father was up in age and not in good health. He used his money to bail Irene's house out, and he paid the mortgage and the bills. In return he had a home to stay at until he died. He trusted Irene, and that was his mistake. When I found out what that nut pulled I called her and told her how I felt. She responded with, "You don't understand, I'm boxed in a corner, I want the house for my kid". For nothing more than pure greed she is trying to ruin the name of one of the best Priest ever. She should be ashamed of herself!
EnglishSherpa said:
One thing I'm confused about... why would a priest be sending letters addressed 'to my wife' to ANYONE?
There's evidence in the court papers that these things exist...
And why did the church not take care of him, as is common, or his loving family not take him in when he was 'up in age' and in poor health?
Curiouser and curiouser.
truthis said:
As a Diocesan priest, the only thing they get is a monthly stipend from the Archdiocese. They need to put away for their own retirement, just like you and I. The Archdiocese does have a few priests' residences available, but they are filled up. There are waiting lists. Just because this Irene states in court papers they are cards, have you seen them? Court papers mean nothing - they are merely papers filed as one sees the situation. As time goes on, discovery is made, depositions are taken, and both sides present their cases. It is a long drawn out process. Anybody can say or write whatever they want, that does not make it the truth.
mac said:
I am Edwun Bohula's niece and I find this whole situation ludicrous. This woman has caused a tremendous amount of stress on our family and is attempting to soil the name of a dedicated and caring priest and uncle. My uncle has always been there for all of us in the family as well as anyone who came into contact with him and needed help. We spoke often as he helped me with my son who has autism. Many times we have spoken of this woman and I can guarentee he referred to her only as his caregiver. He was in very poor health. I am very saddened by this whole thing as I loved him dearly.
CommonSense said:
I feel so sorry for you “sheeple.” How ironic is that by trying to defend a good priest you are lying up and down to do so!?!?! Foreclosure???? Mental illness??? Isn’t foreclosure a public record? Quite a story you are telling Robert. If this priest was in such a “bad” situation why did he stay for so many years? Over a decade! And to all these people who are claiming to know him so well......If you were that close why didn’t you visit him at “his” house? Spewing hatred. How religious?
truthis said:
Many did visit at Father's house - it is truly a shame that this person has sought to dirty Father's good name, all in the name of greed. Did it come out anywhere that Father left her half the house - in consideration of any monies that she had into the house, before he had to bail her out, before the bank would go to foreclosure, before the tax man would take it away from her? Did she ever state this anywhere? Father was a well respected priest. He was well decorated in the Navy. He had the ear of even the Pope. Let the man rest in peace. Let the courts sift through this mess!
truthis said:
Father was proud of you and your son. He enjoyed the book that your daughter wrote about your son.
mac said:
Be aware that this is the second priest this woman has sued and attempted monetary gain.
CommonSense said:
NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR YOU AIR YOUR LAUNDRY. THAT'S NOT WHAT THIS BLOG IS ABOUT. PLEASE HAVE RESPECT FOR THE OTHERS ON HERE AND STOP!!!!!
saddened said:
I grew up as an alter server and usher at St.James, and now at age 20, I can look back at my past memories of St. James and Father Bohula and do nothing but smile and remember all of the good memories I had.. Because that is all I have left. I can't believe "sweet ole Irene" would ruin his name like this!! Father was the most loving and caring person, and for Irene to ruin his name like this is an outrage!!
sallymonkey said:
This is all absurd! When Father moved into Irene's home, he paid for everything! Remodeling, mortgage, utilities and taxes. She agreed to half and half is what she should get. That is exactly what the agreement between them was when he helped her out. No one is forcing her to move out and sell. The will states that NO ONE can sell that house without her approval and that she can live there until she dies if she wants. Does that sound vindictive? That sounds reasonable, pure and simple. No one should be pushing Irene out of her home, no matter what. But she should not be saying things about Father that are not true just to gain something to leave to her son. He was a good man. He was an honorable man.
EnglishSherpa said:
So I'm guessing the good father declined the vow of poverty...
Nevertheless, why is no one concerned with the evident wads of disposable cash he had?
How did he come into so much money that he could allegedly renovate this house and pay all the bills, remodeling, mortgage, utilities and taxes etc.?
Also, since when did the church stop taking care of its own?
Why did the good father need a place to stay in his old age?
The church has a huge, LOVELY home in the Vatican, I saw it myself; granted, it is generally used for clergy fleeing from litigation concerning accusations of child sexual abuse, but I'm sure they could have squeezed in another bed!
This whole story sounds fishy and SHAME on the Sisters if they take this house - the church has MORE than enough money to provide for them and pay for all the Pope's fancy hats, jewelry and shoes.
If the church had helped or if the money had come from parishioners it would be a different story.
But SERIOUSLY, how does a priest legitimately, and still abiding by the tenets of his faith, come into money like that?
sallymonkey said:
Priests do not take a vow of poverty and they get a salary. With no family to support, what do you do with the money? Military pay in wartime (vietnam), is good, what do you do with the money? No family, I guess you save it.
EnglishSherpa said:
Actually, quite a few orders still do (are supposed to) take a vow of poverty e.g. Carmelites, Dominicans, and Jesuits, to name only a few.
Why do they solicit funds from parishioners, above and beyond the tithe, if they've got so much themselves?
I find the fact that he had so much to be very suspicious.
And again, the church takes care of it's own... why, on earth did he have to move in with a parishioner?
Very, very fishy!
truthis said:
Father spent three tours of duty in Viet Nam. He was in the Navy for almost 28 years, retiring as a Captain. His pension was his from the Navy. When he came out of retirement to become pastor at the church, he took NO salary, instead adding what he could have taken, to the coffers of the church. When he retired from the church, he had redone all of the three buildings, the grounds, everything. He left no debt, but instead left the new pastor almost a million dollars in the black! Of course, that priest was not a good money manager, and was going through it quite quickly.
mac said:
He moved in because he had retired and made the agreement that she would take care of him since he was in such poor health and bedridden a lot of the time. By the way , in his condition, an intimate relationship would certainly be out of the question. His money is from many years in the military and he used to help others including me with a special needs child.
truthis said:
Father helped anyone in need that came to him. He turned no one away. All Father had to do was to call someone, and whatever was needed, was provided. Father had a kind heart, a good soul. Please stop this charade and leave his good name alone!
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