One of the more moving, sad, yet, usually "sacramental" duties I have as a bishop is to meet at times with victim survivors of sexual abuse by clergy, and on occasion their families. Some of them tell me they have left the Church, they hate the Church, they have lost their faith. Most of them, though, tell me that, as shattered, sickened, and angry as they may be, nobody, nowhere, nohow is going to take their faith away! These are an inspiration to me.
The wife of one victim once graciously said to me, "Archbishop, you have helped me regain my faith in the Church! I am putting my trust in you!"
I replied, "I'm flattered and grateful, but, please, don't put absolute confidence in me. I'll work everyday to earn and keep your trust, and pray daily I'll never, ever let you down, but, believe me, sooner-or-later, sadly, I'm afraid I will let you down and disappoint you. Please, put your total faith and trust only in Jesus! Anything else is idolatry!"
Maybe, maybe there's a decent reason for leaving the Church. I've never heard one, but a lot of people apparently think they have good cause, since "ex-Catholics" sadly number in the millions.
However, leaving because of something a priest or bishop may have done or not done is surely not a decent reason.
The Beautiful Hands of a Priest
give all priests Thy spirit of humility;
Jesus, poor and worn out for souls,
give all priests Thy spirit of zeal;
Jesus, full of patience and mercy for sinners,
give all priests Thy spirit of compassion;
Jesus, victim for the sins of the world,
give all priests Thy spirit of sacrifice;
Jesus, lover of the little and the poor,
give all priests Thy spirit of charity.
Mary, Queen of the Clergy, pray for us;
and obtain for us numerous and holy
priests and religious.
Amen.
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That reminds me of a story I heard about St. Francis, who was getting toward the end of his life. He couldn't walk very well, and was blind. But a group of people from a particular parish went to see him about their pastor. The poor priest was shacking up with a woman, creating scandal, etc., and they wanted St. Francis to go straighten him out. (Give him what for!) So, St. Francis made his way to the priest's house and they knocked on the door. The people were waiting with baited breath for St. Francis to "get him!" But, St. Francis, being full of humility, knelt before the priests, grabbed his hands, and kissed them saying, "All I know is that these hands bring me Jesus!" (Referring to the Eucharist.) As it was, the poor sinful priest converted on the spot and began living an exemplary life.
Mother Theresa of Calcutta used to say that pride destroyed everything. And Satan has no defense against humility.
That is a wonderful story! Thank you!